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jrayment831 · Mar 24, 2010, 11:14 AM

My husband keeps receiving e-mails from a girl that swears she knows him, but he has no idea who she is. She asks him out for coffee, tells him she doesn't care if he's married. He's plain as day told her in ONE e-mail, that he was happily married, with kids, and he wanted her to leave him alone. So how should we handle this? Is she really a person trying to get with my husband, or is it someone from work screwing with us, or someone trying to just cause problems between us? I have no idea how to handle this.

smoothy · Mar 24, 2010, 11:18 AM

Put her name and address in your spam filter... and set it up to either block them... or send them directly to the recycle bin.

Problem solved. Why carry out a dialog with someone you don't want to, nor care to.

jrayment831 · Mar 24, 2010, 11:23 AM

Good idea! Smart man u are!

Jake2008 · Mar 25, 2010, 12:50 AM

How did you find out about the emails your husband has been receiving.

I find it odd that she would repeatedly send emails and he says he doesn't know her.

As the others have said, he (not you) needs to delete and block this person. Why hasn't he done that already.

I wish · Mar 25, 2010, 07:13 AM

He shouldn't even bother replying. Sounds like spam to me.

Block and delete.

However, he seems to have a history of suspicious emails: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...de-459810.html

What's going on exactly?

jrayment831 · Mar 25, 2010, 07:56 AM

I think he gets a little too personal with his clients. I understand he wants to build a relationship with them, so they keep placing more business, but I've read some of the e-mails, and he's WAY too personal. It really bothers me a lot. But I asked him about it, and he said he wouldn't get that personaly anymore, but even if he does, I'm sure he'll just delete the e-mails so I don't see them. We aren't getting along right now at all. It's very hard to work with your husband.

I wish · Mar 25, 2010, 11:19 AM

Sounds more like there's a breakdown in the marriage. The trust is gone.

I suggest you take more drastic measures to repair the marriage, such as marriage counselling.

If you can't find a way to repair the damage, then don't force yourself to suffer. You may be better off going your separate ways.