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sarah1012 · Mar 23, 2010, 05:34 PM

I am in high school and in one of my classes me and a guy I sit by really hit it off. We have been flirting for almost a month. All of my friends tell me he is really shy but he has never been shy with me. I know that he likes me (99.9% sure) but he has not made a move yet. Please tell me how to deal with this.

sabrewolfe · Mar 23, 2010, 06:11 PM

Make a move on him.

FadedMaster · Mar 23, 2010, 07:50 PM

Originally Posted by sabrewolfe

Make a move on him.

Yeah. As simple as this answer is, it is probably your best option. To clarify, I'm sure Sabre means to ask this gentleman out. Because apparently a few "moves" have probably already been made in the form of flirting.

So if you like him, and he likes you.. the only obvious next step would be to go on a few dates and get to know each other outside of school. Just take it slow and not too seriously. Because as you said, you are in high school. That's mainly just when you begin to figure out how the whole dating thing really works. So don't worry 'bout annything too much. :)

Good luck. Let us know how things go.

Clough · Mar 23, 2010, 09:39 PM

Hi, sarah1012!

Would you feel comfortable asking him to do something with you?

Thanks!

redhed35 · Mar 24, 2010, 06:06 AM

You could always ask him to join you and your other friends for a group activity.

Try and get to know him outside of school.

sarah1012 · Mar 24, 2010, 06:36 PM

I don't feel comfortable making the first move.

Clough · Mar 24, 2010, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by sarah1012

I don't feel comfortable making the first move.

Has he made any indications of wanting to do something with you at all?

redhed35 · Mar 25, 2010, 07:15 AM

Originally Posted by sarah1012

I don't feel comfortable making the first move.

If no one makes any move nothing happens.

Sometimes you have to go for want you want,take a risk,rejection is hard,but a faint heart never won the day.

sarah1012 · Mar 25, 2010, 06:32 PM

Clough:
No not directly but I don't think he is experienced when it comes to girls. How would I go about talking to him?

Clough · Mar 25, 2010, 08:15 PM

You've already spoken to him in a number of ways. Perhaps arrange a group meeting of a bunch of friends to just get together to do something. Bowling, movie, pizza party, etc.

"Hey! You wanna get together for...?" And, you see what happens then.

Nothing serious needs to happen at this point. Just have fun being friends...

I do agree with redhed35 concerning what she's written and would like to add that, you can't win the game if you don't play it!

Thanks!