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    Mar 14, 2010, 08:11 PM
    Why doesn't sex feel good for me?
    I just started having sex with my boyfriend, the first time was very painfull but after that I felt nothing. Since the first time we have had sex about 10 times and tried different positions, how fast we thrust, and moving different ways still nothing. We also tried more foreplay but still nothing. Also when he fingers me I feel nothing. Before this I had never masterbated and I've tried and haven't been able to find pleasure. Do you think there is something wrong with me? Or any other tips and advice would be great. Also I am on birthcontrol and I didn't know if that could effect feeling, should I try to switch? Thanks!
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    Mar 14, 2010, 08:13 PM
    How old are the both of you?
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    Mar 14, 2010, 08:21 PM

    We're 18
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