[help_me_now23]

Hi , I'm fourteen , and last month , me and my boyfriend had sex. And we were protected. But I'm late on my period, and I don't have time to take a pregnancy test because of a spring sport , and right now I'm crying because I'm so scared. Is there any other way to know?!

[J_9]

There is no way to tell. Not having time is not an excuse. It takes 5 minutes when you pee in the morning when you first get up. I bet it takes you longer to fix your hair.

[XOXOlove]

A pregnancy test shouldn't take too long. If you don't want to take a test you could go to the doctor to get tested. If you miss your period than it could be possible that you are pregnant. The only way to know for sure is to take a test.

[help_me_now23]

The thing is, my mom doesn't know.. and if she found it, I would never be able to see my boyfriend everr

[Fr_Chuck]

And if he goes to prison or juv detention ( depending on his age) for having sex with you, it may be a long time before you see him also.

So time to stop acting like a kid, you felt you were a adult and could have sex, so time to start behaving with the result now.
So you get a test and take it, if you are, mom has to know and lots of choices to make

[J_9]

How are you prepared to tell her if you ARE pregnant? Having sex comes with risks. You are far too young to be having sex because your body is not prepared to make a baby yet. You are still growing.

[J_9]

I'll agree with Chuck, but be a little kinder. You chose to participate in adult activities. As such, you should be prepared for the adult consequences.

[LearningAsIGo]

the thing is,, my mom doesnt know .. and if she found it ,, i would never be able to see my bf everr

I know this sounds like a big deal right now, but in the long run the most important thing is to protect yourself and be healthy. If you are pregnant, you have to find out early to help protect yourself and the baby from health problems.

If you're not pregnant, you need to get birth control to protect your own health from future pregnancy and disease.

Either way, because you are so young, you need to talk with your mom or another trusted adult about this before much more time passes.

[XOXOlove]

the thing is,, my mom doesnt know .. and if she found it ,, i would never be able to see my bf everr

So if you are pregnant are you not going to tell your mom about it and just pop out a baby under her nose?

The best thing to do it to tell your parents once you find out. You can't just not tell them and expect them to just find out on their own.

Also, you need to take a pregnancy test. You can easily go to a drugstore and buy one. If you have time to have unprotected sex, then you should also have time to take a pregnancy test.

I understand that you made a mistake, but you can't reverse it so you need to deal with it right now.

[help_me_now23]

It wasn't unprotected. I was protected.. and I was late so I was scared ? Thanks anyway but I'm not pregnant :]