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    Mar 5, 2010, 11:53 PM
    Im going off to college next year, while my boyfriend will be a senior in HS?help
    Im a senior girl this year, and in the fall I will be going off to college. My boyfriend will just be a senior next year, I know I get teased about dateing him and called a cougar. But I love him more than anything in the world. We have been through so much together, he is my everything. We both already said we definitely want to make it work next year whnever I go off to college, and I can honestly say I really know we can. The college I'm atteding is about 2 hours away, and hopefully ill haeve a car with me, and he has his own.
    I just need any tips of advise? Something.. just to get someone else opinioni on the topic would be great. Like and tips on how to make it stronger?
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    Mar 6, 2010, 09:15 AM

    You still have quite a few months before you go off to college, so focus on building a stronger relationship and enjoying the time that you spend together. Continue building a strong communication system, which is extremely important when you become long distance. Let the rest play out on its own. No need to predict the future, focus on the present.
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    Mar 6, 2010, 09:38 AM

    So what if anyone says anything ? If you allow what others say to harm the way you feel, then you did not have the strong relationship you claim you do.

    And if your friends behave and say things like that, perhaps a better choice in friends
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    Mar 6, 2010, 11:31 AM

    Read this,

    Long Distance Relationship Advice | The Frisky
    And,
    Surviving a Long-Distance Relationship

    Hope it helps, any questions?

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