[specops67]

On August 9, 2004 I found out I was pregnant by my boyfriend.  He left the following day on a police mission in Iraq.  I called him and told him while he was in the states, and all he could say was get an abortion and to move on with my life.  Now this isn't like him at all, he has three children from a previous marriage that were his life.  We dated for a year, a year exactly on the day he left.  I was born on Dec. 9, 1983, and he was born on June 24, 1967.   His father passed away on July 28, 2004, and that night is the night this baby was conceived.  My family would disown me if they knew I was pregnant, especially from a man they all hated.  So here I am pregnant, no one to help me, and no word from him.   He always wanted this baby, and now that it happened, I was dumped and left in the cold.   I wish I could believe in miracles, and hope, but right now my soul feels gone.  He was my best friend, soulmate, and lover.  

Any help/advice, would be appreciated.  Thank you for time.

[Theanswerwillcome]

I have the deepest sorrow for your position.This guy was not a friend or true lover if he can give up what was made in love. You must understand that no matter what that child was made in the union of love that was between you two then. I feel you need to approach your :o mother first and then your father will come soon. This is your bridge to not being afraid and taking control. It will work out better than you think. Don't think it won't be rough a little that is expected. I feel you are a strong and loving person and don't give up on yourself and that little angel inside.

[Frenchy_1951]

There person before me is right. If you want to get get child support get his social security number, they will help you. My daughter made the same mistake like yours twice. :o , there was no way I was going to let her or the babies be homeless. I just swallowed hard and asked God to help me raise my 2 little angels (both fathers were losers).Only rules I have. No running around, children come first, no drugs, drinking or smoking. Pray to God and promise you will take good care of his little angel, then tell mom.
P.S. keep your pomise :)