[Sadiegirl2]

My son ended a 5 year relationship with a woman. They have a 3 month old baby. She had a child from a previous relationship.

I baby sat the baby for 2 months,and her son, now 6 yrs. Old even after the break-up, because she was stressed and needed some help. They both work. The baby was born in my son's name. He thinks no other baby was ever born, but his baby. He helped her with her son from the time they met until the night they broke up.

One particular Friday, my son had the baby, she asked if my son could watch her son, because she had to work the next day, all agreed. Sunday after church, I went to the grocery store, I say her with a man in her pj's. I came home and told my son. He called her and told her to come and get her 6yr. Old. He asked her how stressed could she be, if she was out with a man. She refused. They argued.

12 midnight the police came to my house with her to get both children. My son was crazed with anger. My grandson was sick and still is. The mother failed to tell, the baby had bronchitis. The police didn't want to hear anything.

My son has since filed for joint legal custody and has his court date. The baby is out of my care, and (we believe) her grandmother 80 yrs. Old is caring for the baby. She refuses to tell my son, where the baby is at any given time and who exactly is caring for the baby. She has refused to allow her 6 yr. old to speak to my son if they see each.


My son has to beg to see the baby, for fear if she gets mad she will not allow him to see the baby at all. He wants to get the baby every chance he gets, even taking extra time off from work. She has not been served yet, with the custody papers.

Is there any recourse until the court date. It is ashame there is no support for fathers who love and want to be with their children.
Broken-hearted in CT.

[GV70]

Is there any recourse until the court date.

No. I assume they have never been married and that's mean she is the sole custody parent.

It is ashame there is no support for fathers who love and want to be with their children.

Very true...