[hema123]

Hi I have married since 2 years I have baby.nowday I feel I'm not spending quality time with my husband viceversa.buy the time husbnd is back from office I'm tired.I don't know whether my husband is not finding me ttractive.I truly love my sweet hubby

[smoothy]

First... no need to worry about if he loves you or still finds you attractive. He does.

Its common for a woman to feel that way even a few years after having a baby. Most guys aren't so shallow a few extra pounds or stretch marks will change how we feel about our wives.

And yes we do for the most part understand that taking care of a little one is exhausting and time consuming. And yes we do recognise when you make that extra effort for us.

Now as far as what impresses us there is no simple answer... you know your husband best, find something that you know he likes and do it for him. He should appreciate the effort if he is any kind of a real man.

[redhed35]

Would it be possible to get a baby sitter for an evening,and go for a meal or walk or even bowling,have fun together.

Flirt with your husband,kiss... sometimes in a long term relationship couples don't kiss like they used too.

A long deep kiss that will buckle his knees,will show you still fancy him, and a reminder to both of you that the passion is still very much alive.

It takes time to find a new normal after the arrival of a baby.

I also suggest,perhaps a flirty/sweet text message of phone call during the day,if he can take calls.

Its really whatever you both feel comfortable with.