[kalpanaborse]

My husband maintains strong relation with his cousin sister i.e. father cousin brother's daughter. There was some misunderstanding at my husbands place with there relation and she was asked to maintain distance. Our marrige is a love marriage, my husband has shared his parents thoughts about his cousin sister with me and I was like OK but after marriage I am unable to tolerate there frequent and lenghty conversation on daily basis. I am feeling as though I am ignored by my husband. I tired to share my feeling with my husband asking for a help but I was surprised to be beaten up by him and stopped talking for a long time. This continued for a while and I tired to approach the girl and shared my feeling requesting her to avoid unnecessary conversions with my husband but even that seems to have been failed. She has also stopped talking to me. I was also surprised to note that she was frequently visiting my home during the absence of my in-laws and shared one bed to sleep with my brother-in-law for 2 times. I am surprised my husband, my brother-in-law and the girls nature. I do not want to think further and I am afraid that if it still continues I shall take some tough decisions to avoid the thoughts. Please help me in avoid such thought and I want to live with peace.

[amicon]

If your husband beat you up he is an abuser and you should seriously consider leaving him.

May I ask where in the world you are?

[talaniman]

This doesn't sound like a love marriage to me! It sounds more like slavery.