[anitadee2anifre]

My husband lied to coworkersk and told them his wasn't married, until we ran into one of them at a restaurant, and introduced me as his wife. The women was shocked. What should I think of him, I felt really bad after hearing this women ask him when did he get married.

[anitadee2anifre]

My husband has been lying to women coworkers on his job, that he is married. I didn't know this until we were out to dinner one evening and one of his coworkers walked in. He introduced me to her as his wife, the women was shocked, she asked him when did he get married. I was really hurt, because I tell all the men on my job that I'm married so that they want try to date me. And because I did once love this person.[/I]

[jaime90]

It means that this man wants to be available to other women. If you don't want to get hit on, or asked out, you let someone know that you are taken. Not only that, but lying is a big no-no-even if he didn't lie directly to YOU, and if you're a normal person, this should take a big notch out of your trust for him. I suggest sitting down and talking with your husband.

[Gemini54]

How long have you been married? I notice you said that you 'once' loved him... what's going on?

Sounds like communication between you and your husband has broken down to the point where he does not want to be in the marriage. If he's not telling his co-workers that he's married, perhaps he doesn't want to be any more.

Time for a reality check talk with your husband. Something is seriously wrong here.

[cdad]

Does he wear a ring ? Usually that's the first sign someone is married or not. If he is taking it off you have much deeper things to consider.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes agreed, sounds like a lot of other issues, And perhaps a trip to his work place to surprise him for lunch one day.

[amicon]

You should a serious discussion with your husband about this.

There must be other issues in your marriage,and if you don't talk about your problems you have a very troubled situation.

And who was it that you loved,your husband or somebody else?

[redhed35]

Your post is a little confusing.

What's your husband like as a person? Does he wear his wedding ring?
Does he like to keep his personal life personal?

My work life is my work life,I don't share the details of my personal life with all and sundry,granted something like been married is a big thing,but then again,depends on the person and how private they are.

I would not jump too conclusions just yet,but talk to your husband and find out what his reasons are.

[Jake2008]

Had to spread the love Red, but I can't think of one good reason why a married man would take off his ring, unless he wanted people to think he wasn't married.