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    jagler Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 24, 2010, 03:13 AM
    Girl won't talk to me why?
    Sothis girl that knew I liked her got jealous when I got drunk on new years and went out with this other girl for less than a day because it was a mistake I told her nothing happened... because nothing had.. well one day we were talking about people I wanted to be with like a few weeks after the new years day fiasco.. and I told her well you for one and she said wow I didn't know that she askd are you wanting to pursue our relationship I told her I didn't know she never answers me when I ask her how she feels about me she said I have feelings for you but can I get to know you first please. I said yea that's fine lol but you already know everything about me which was true she knew a lot. Well during the next few weeks she stopped calling and barely txtd me and now she don't even text at all and I called her one night and she hung up so called back thinking maybe she hit a button and she says in a pissed off tone I didn't answer for a reason.. so I sent her a text saying did I do to deserve that she said leave me alone... gotta any ideas how I can fix friendship at least
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    Jan 24, 2010, 03:17 AM

    You are just going to have to accept her actions and leave her alone as she has told you to.
    You have to let this go.
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    Jan 24, 2010, 03:30 AM

    Got any answers as to why the sudden 360
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    Jan 24, 2010, 03:39 AM

    No,only she knows that.
    For some reason she changed her mind.
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    Jan 24, 2010, 03:43 AM
    Well that wasn't much help nothing I didn't already know haha :)
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    Jan 24, 2010, 04:18 AM

    Maybe she thinks that you are not relationship material, or friendship material.

    Maybe she thinks you have a problem with alcohol, or women in general.

    Maybe she thinks that because you don't want to give her time to get to know you, you would be impatient with everything else, i.e. sex.

    I'm just guessing here, but she did do an about face without a solid explanation.

    Just my opinion, that for whatever reason she chose to not pursue a relationship with you, your best bet is to give her time and space, and maybe in a few months, call and see if she's up for coffee.

    Keep it simple, and try not to put more meaning to this than there is.
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    Oct 26, 2011, 02:17 PM
    Do a movie style thing with flowers and ****
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    Oct 26, 2011, 04:51 PM
    No, what's the point. It is obvious that she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, leave her alone and keep walking along.
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