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    courtney9339 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 18, 2010, 06:38 PM
    How do I tell my mom I want my boyfriend and I to move in together in my house?
    I recently found out I was pregnant, I'm 15. My boyfriend is 19. He's going to stand beside me, I'm positive he will. We've been together for a little over 9 months. When I told my mother I was pregnant, she was asking smart attitude questions like: You guys can just move into our house if you want to, I'm not going to kick you out? Are you guys just going to get married? I don't know how to take what she's saying. I told my boyfriend what she said, and he said that'd be the best thing to do. :/ Was she serious, or just having an attitude because she was upset with me? HELP!
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    Jan 18, 2010, 06:47 PM

    I don't know if your mother was serious but why would you say she has a smart attitude? I think she might be a little disappointed and you wanting your boyfriend to move in with you might not be the best idea. Right now you have to worry about the baby growing inside you and figure out how your going support the baby just in the case the father bail out. I hope he does do the right thing but you always need a plan B.

    You need to go to have a serious talk with your mom and I must ask where does yoour boyfriend stay now because why does he thinks moving in with you right now is the best thing?
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    Jan 18, 2010, 07:07 PM

    First it is not a good idea, if you want to talk about stress, next what would be the rent agreement of him and you paying mom for living there.

    He should consider getting his own place and if anything you moving in with him.
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    Jan 18, 2010, 07:15 PM

    He also needs to consider that he may be guilty of statutory rape.
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    Jan 19, 2010, 02:51 PM

    Like, she's the one who said it. We talked about it this morning again though. She's considering it. I mean, he can't just up and buy a place. But she also did say, if he did get a place, I could move with him. I also found out today, he gave up 5 scholarships to play football on. It's really stressful.

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