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    Jan 6, 2010, 05:54 PM
    What does it mean if u love a guy u don't know
    Okay so I REALLY like this guy that I don't know.. he goes to my school and I think he might be the one...
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    Jan 6, 2010, 06:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by angelinaballerina24 View Post
    what does it mean if u love a guy u dont know
    It means you've been watching too many Disney movies and have a warped sense of love and reality. You "love" the idea of him. He's a canvas for whatever characteristics your mind concocts and decides to paint. Until you talk to him and actually begin to know him it's all a fantasy played out between your ears.

    Quote Originally Posted by angelinaballerina24 View Post
    he goes to my school and i think he might be the one...
    He may be, why don't you go talk to him and find out? At the very least, reality may be able to slip a foot in the door.
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    Jan 7, 2010, 09:36 AM

    How old are you? Have you talked to him before? How well do you know him? Does he know how you feel?
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    Jan 7, 2010, 09:43 AM

    How can you REALLY like someone you don't know?
    That makes no sense my dear.

    You could possibly like what you have seen and or like what you have heard but if you don't know the person,you can't honestly REALLY like him.

    How old are you? You sound a little too young to be thinking so seriously about someone being the one.
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    Jan 7, 2010, 09:48 AM

    You can't love someone you don't know.

    Love comes from sharing experiences, trust in one another, communication, responsibility, honesty, and so much more. None of these things happen when you don't even know the person.

    You have a crush.
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    Jan 7, 2010, 06:37 PM

    You cannot love someone you don't know. When you LOOK at someone, and have feelings for them, you are basing your feelings for them on the way they APPEAR. On top of that, love is NOT feelings for a person. It is commitment, trust, respect, willingness to die for someone- all of which I am sure, is greatly lacking in your situation. You do not love this boy, you saw him, you fell in love with his appearance, and now you think he is the "one." This is a warped view of what love is. Love is not simply romance, and it's not the 'fairytale' you believe it to be.
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    Jan 7, 2010, 06:45 PM

    You are smitten with the appearance of a guy at your school.

    Don't confuse THAT with real love.
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    Jan 8, 2010, 04:15 AM

    You're having a crush on someone you don't know.
    That doesn't mean you love them.
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    Jan 8, 2010, 04:36 AM
    Its wasting your time
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    Jan 8, 2010, 07:35 AM
    It's called infatuation... not love.
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