I think it is important to understand the difference between a breakup and a separation.
A separation is more of a temporary thing while the two people in the relationship work through issues, with an agreement between each other that it is just time apart and temporary, with a view to a future reconciliation.
A break-up is usually permanent, at least I believe so. Unfortunately, what happened between me and my ex was a break-up and a very real one. I don't think we will get back together, I can fool myself as much as I want to but I know what it is deep down. There was no talk of time apart between me and her except the fact that she said "I just think we should leave it for a while"
Perhaps that could be read as a hint for wanting time out so she could 'do her thing'!
Or perhaps until she worked out what she wanted, who knows? I questioned this for weeks!
You can read my story here if you like!
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...elp-39548.html
Now, I just accept that she won't be back and in the months that follow, I most likely won't want her back, even though I love her!
Sometimes, you just have to let go, painful as it may be!