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    barrbee girl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 28, 2009, 01:32 AM
    I emailed a guy that I cant get hinm off my mind and he acts like nothing has changed
    Ive been going out as friends with a man for the past few months. Hes always been friendly but hasn't really acted interested. So I emailed him and said is it wrong that I can't get you off my mind. I didn't hear from him for a few days and when I did he didn't acknowledge the email. He did ask me to a movie. Help is he interested or not?
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    Dec 28, 2009, 02:16 AM

    You might just have to ask him about your email, and why he didn't respond, in person.

    It does sound that you may be more interested in him, than he is in you. So don't be disappointed if you don't hear what you want to.

    But, after two months (presuming that you are dating exclusively), maybe he is just shy, or doesn't express himself well.

    Either way, if you just break the ice with the email, maybe he will open up a bit and give you an idea of where he stands.
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    Dec 28, 2009, 02:31 AM

    He isdefinitely interested , otherwise
    He would not have asked you to a movie.
    BEWARE, there are many stages of interest.
    You can only find out at what stage
    Does he stand by literally asking him.
    Good luck.
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    Dec 28, 2009, 02:58 PM

    Why don't you ask him what his feelings are. You will get the most accurate answer, as oppose to trying to "read the signs." I wouldn't get in too far, too soon with this guy- it's only been a few months. Keep things at friendship level until you know you are both on the same page. Don't get emotionally invested too quickly, especially when you don't know how he feels for you- you could end up with devastating heartbreak. Always be cautious in the early stages of a relationship.

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