[oscarinc]

Well my wife we have 9 year together but 6 months ago she star acting wire she go out a lot she block her phone litte thinks like that we have 2 kids .we have a lot of probles because she go out whit her friends olways came to late like 2 or 3 am because she what ti the movies an then to eat but all the time until one day she came at 5.30 I whas mad I send her to her mamas house.. we talk she came back but later like 2 weeaks later she told me that don't want to be whit me no more I have tray everything to gater back but she don't want no more I don't know that to do know she's not bad but there some things that she do that maybe I thing that she's see in some one right now has bin like 6 month is I don't talk to her she not even talk to me she told me that is because she's mad but even she go out a lot whit her friends

[Devorameira]

It looks suspicious, but just because you're fighting and she's going out with friends doesn't necessarily mean that your wife is cheating. She may be going out with friends because of the fighting. I agree that a married woman with kids has no business running around all night long under any circumstances.

The biggest problem I see is that she has straight out told you she doesn't want to be with you and you're still hanging around. If she has truly made up her mind, you might as well move on. I know this isn't what you want to hear. I know breaking up is hard to do, especially with kids involved. It's painful to close a chapter of your life and move on, but you still have a lot of life ahead of you and you need to make the most of it while you can.

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[Jake2008]

After six months, and no communication, I'd say that the marriage has come to an end.

All you can do now is make sure you have a legal separation in order, establish child custody and support, and make sure that you keep your relationship strong for the sake of your children.

She may not choose to talk you you, but the courts will address custody and visitation issues.

Good luck to you.

[talaniman]

Find out what she is mad about and what she wants to do about it because this will only get worse. Personally I would have already told her to leave, or I would have left, and gone right to a lawyer to see what my rights were.