[gamachiro]

I can only orgasm by rubbing myself against stuff such as pillows, or blankets, etc. or things that vibrate, like a back massager, or something.
But when I try to reach climax with my fingers, like rubbing my clitoris, and all that stuff.. I lose my patience and get bored of just laying there rubbing myself. Why is this?

[Alty]

Because you lack patience and you haven't yet learned to pleasure yourself this way.

[Gemini54]

It might just be that your fingers don't provide quite enough stimulation or friction. We're all different and different things arouse us. To be honest, I have never had much luck with my own fingers either.. I prefer the stronger stimulation of a vibrator or the feel of a tongue or someone else's fingers. Whatever works, I reckon. Try a vibrator, you'll probably like it.

[J_9]

I can only orgasm by rubbing myself against stuff such as pillows, or blankets, etc. or things that vibrate, like a back massager, or something.
But when i try to reach climax with my fingers, like rubbing my clitoris, and all that stuff.. I lose my patience and get bored of just laying there rubbing myself. Why is this?

How old are you?