[mccartneylove]

I entered a new school, met new friends & all, & I also met this boy, let's call him Joe.
He was cute & funny, he was the class clown! In case you are wondering, I love when boys are silly and simply immature, the fact that he makes me laugh. During class he always loved to sit near me to be... well... bothering me! I loved him, but there was this other boy whom I also felt attracted to. & I was told that Joe was going to ask me exactly one month away from then. I was confused. Three weeks passed, and Joe and I were closer than ever, we hugged, he always had me with him, & we would grab hands, he was very sweet. Except that he was not as funny as he used to be... he settled down a bit. Finally I chose Joe and starting going out with him, I couldn't turn away from him & couldn't throw to nowhere these wonderful moments with him. We dated for over a month, and he started being kind of different... Joe was not as jolly as before, well sometimes, only when he was hyper, in good mood. But he was still sweet at times, his lovely kisses were best :) I didn't want to be the typical annoying girlfriend (the kind that was ALWAYS with him) , so I gave him his space & so during classes I wouldn't be with him as much, like before. BECAUSE I was afraid someday he might feel annoyed or bored by me. He liked completely the opposite, he would've liked better if I was that kind of annoying girlfriend & so he started thinking that I didn't loved him. In school people would say that I would flirt with other guys (NOT TRUE). Joe came to a point where he wouldn't speak to me, three days, the worst of my life. So I told him that we needed to talk seriously, & he broke up with me. "I love you as a friend" was his excuse. I still love him, I realized that during these three days, I was loving him more & more... while he was loving me less & less... Everyone was very happy when we had started dating, & couldn't believe we broke up, they thought we were meant for each other, they'd say "opposites attract". A calm girl with a crazy boy. His best friend told me that Joe thought that I was never with him, so he kind of lost interest... I think. Joe also told me he wanted to still be best friends, but I said that I couldn't...
I noticed that in class, I was having this funny conversations with BOYS... and he would turn around and look awkward...
P.S. It feels horrible to have a broken heart, this feeling is weird... and it hurts. I feel this emptiness, I will miss his silly jokes.

So, now that you know the story, could I get him back? What should I do? I mean, I think it was my fault... so? Comment on whatever you'd like to!

[mccartneylove]

Sorry, correction: started going out with him*

[amicon]

Nobody can tell you what will happen in the future. You need to look at his actions,he broke up with you and as heartbroken as you feel right now you must work actively to heal from the breakup. Stay busy see friends and do things you enjoy. Don't try to be friends with him,it's too early. You will get over this. Good luck.

[Silver Lining]

Talk to him about how you feel. Fill the gap. I feel you guys broke up due to miscommunication. You need to understand what he expects from you and vice versa,,

[talaniman]

How old are you??