[praveensk]

From 2003 my family is facing to many problems...

Money earned is lost as the flow of water



My elder brother1 was married in 2005... he wasgoing well but suddenly he changed , quarell with all the family members.. including parents, his wife<s parents

My brother2 was studying well , he has now changed a lot , keeps drinking.. he tells that he is not able to control even if he don't want to drink.. due to his activityour respect in the society is decreasing...


Every 3 days before or after fullmoon and amavasya(nomoon) this takes place...



I am a student presently not able to cncentrate towards studies as before

Could u help me out...

[Jake2008]

People live their lives, independent of what others' may think is the best course of action. The cause is not 'black magic', which would mean that they were not responsbile for their actions.

They are adults, and make choices for the decisions they decide. You can no more change an adult person who is intent on doing what they are doing, than you can change the stripes on a Zebra.

As adults they are free to choose to live their lives as they wish, and there is nothing you can do about it.

Instead, learn from their mistakes, live a better life, and realize that you cannot undue what has been done, or change the course of their lives for the better.

They have to decide this for themselves.