Originally Posted by
Fr_Chuck
A attorney is the first step always.
But then my first wife, cleaned out the bank accounts, took all of the items out of safety deposit boxes ( in the 10's of thousands of dollars in value) and sold all the funiture when I was out of town. So I guess it all depends on what "first" you want to do
Oh my gosh!
I once did a background check in the middle of a divorce, attempting to see what the Plaintiff wife had been "up to" prior to the marriage. The Defendant husband got home - they lived in a rural area - and discovered the house empty... and the cows gone!
Yes, she sold the farm's cows.
I still find that unbelievable but he was gone for a week and during that time another dairy farmer came on by, paid for them and took them.
Amazing because the farmers actually knew each other - but it happened.