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    broknhearted Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 21, 2009, 03:27 AM
    Lost feelings
    Hi... im currently seeing this chick,I'm crazy about her.. but last night I was really drunk an said to another girl that if she didn't have her girlfriend and I didn't have the girl I was seeing that I wood totally go for her,I didn't mean to say it,I feel horrible now.. I really want her to keep talking to me but I don't know what to say to make it better,I can't see my life being without her.. what do I do?
    I'm so heartbroken.

    Signed broken hearted girl.
    Xx
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    Nov 21, 2009, 03:38 AM
    Everybody gets ahead of themselves when they are drunk! People always babble and say things they don't mean its just one of those things. Which one isn't talking to you?
    Your girlfriend? Or the girl who's got a girlfriend?
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    Nov 21, 2009, 03:49 AM
    The girl I like isn't talk to me,,
    Were not even together we are just seeing each other.. I miss her an I feel horrible.. I never meant to hurt her,, an now I feel its to late to make this better,, I don't know what to say... I'm feel horrible...
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:02 AM
    She probably misses you too! But she is obviously. Making a point of how upset with you she is and to be honest you can't blame her.
    Have you tried talking to her?
    And plus in my opinion if you are not committed in a relationship with her its not as if you haven't got the right to say that to someone else its not really her call. Fair enough if you was together properly.

    Perhaps you should tell her how sorry you are and that you didn't mean it and the only person you are interested is her.. bla bla bla bla...
    And that you don't just want to 'see' her anymore, you want to be with her official! And try and make a go of it.

    Be honest and tell her how you feel!
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:07 AM
    Well the thing is we have been "seeing" each other for just over a month an she wants to take it slow.. but than she tells her best mate she is going to ask me out when she gets back from the mines next Tuesday she goes away for one week than is back for a week,, I have told her how sorry I am but she reckons that she needs to thnk...
    Even though we not together she still thinks I can't say anything to anyone,, I just don't get it.. I didn't even touch anyone.. its killing me inside that she won't reply to me...
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:13 AM

    Perhaps you should just give her some thinking time and space then. Us girls are weird though
    If you bombared us with texts and calls it gets on our nerves, then if you don't text or call we think your not interested.
    I don't think you have blown it, because like you said you haven't touched anyone its not really a good enough reason to call it off.

    Just send her a real meanigful text from the heart make it a long text!:) just telling her how you really feel and how great the past month as been... and then just say the rest is up to you.

    That will have her thinking then..
    Give her some time.
    You can say sorry a million times but how does she know that you mean it?
    You have to prove it!
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:21 AM
    You're right.. maybe I should just give her time..
    I'll try what you said...
    Thanks so much for your advice...
    I'll let you know how it goes.. thank you
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:24 AM
    That's OK :)
    And stop being so hard on yourself!
    Hope it all works out for you :)
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    Nov 21, 2009, 04:30 AM
    I can't help but be hard on self
    I can never do anything right,, I always fuk up..
    Oh well.. I just hope she can forgive me an take me back,
    Wish me luck...
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    Nov 21, 2009, 05:17 AM

    Goooooodd luck ;)
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    Nov 21, 2009, 05:31 AM
    Well she called me,, it was so awrkard...
    She isn't mad but she doesn't no weather to take me back,, she said she wants to see me
    But I don't know if I can face her,, this is so hard
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    Nov 21, 2009, 08:59 AM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html

    This post was heavily edited, for bad spelling, chat/text.

    The lesson to learn, don't get drunk, and run off at the mouth.
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    Feb 11, 2010, 05:25 AM
    Have no were to live
    Hey I'm 19 an in need of despratre help..
    I've recently been kicked out of ny home,, long story but until my because gets rid of her boyfriend I won't be aloowed to go0 nk home.;.. I've lost eveything no id to get anythgn not evn centerkink none of my family talk to me so I can't even borrow munny... I don't no what to do.im staying with a friend but can only for aniotha week I'm scared I'm going to be on the streets I don't no what to doo.. an ideas anyone? Cheers
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    Feb 11, 2010, 05:28 AM
    Please refer to this announcement: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...ens-board.html
    Then repost your question as it is unreadable.
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    Feb 11, 2010, 05:20 PM

    If you don't have a job, I'd be getting one quickly... even if it's in the fast food industry.

    Find a local homeless shelter or go to the welfare agency. Most are willing to help you get on your feet.
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