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PandasHoppy · Nov 11, 2009, 11:37 PM

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now and things have been great, he has helped me overcome an addiction to self harm and with many pshycological issues such as a phobia of sleep.

Recently we had a scare that I might be pregnant :eek: but all thurned out good and he showed that he would be there for me and support me if something like that happened.

Today however I was a bit Touchy emotionally and some of the things his best friend said really got to me (though they normally wouldn't) and my boyfriend got really pissed off at me though he tried not to show it. This afternoon while we were talking he thought I was upset at himfor something he didn't have a choice in so we got into a little spat and it ended in me hanging up on him.

We've had a few (like 3 or 4) spats before and normally he'd text me or send me an email saying his sorry and that he loves me but this time he has just not said anything... What should I do? Should I call him and say I'm sorry?

2ndTime · Nov 11, 2009, 11:52 PM

I think you should definitely call him and tell him that you are sorry. It also sounds like you are emotionally touchy because you are pregnant. This is normal in pregnancy. You should also tell your boyfriend that he should try to understand because your pregnancy is causing hormonal change that can affect your emotion and can make you extremely touchy. I know this because I have experience from having had given birth before. If you are definitely not pregnant, then it maybe that your are letting your emotions get between you and your boyfriend. You need to fix this problem or you can lose your boyfriend.

rockie100 · Nov 11, 2009, 11:53 PM

Think I could use a little more detail here...
But maybe he would like you to do just as he has in the past... Call and say your sorry. If you are really sorry that is. And if you think he is deserving.

emopunk7 · Nov 12, 2009, 12:17 AM

My ex would never say sorry before me. That would be the day.

rockie100 · Nov 12, 2009, 12:39 AM

In a healthy, mature relationship, both are willing to apologize. And until both realize the importance of comunication, feelings will get hurt, misunderstandings will be the norm. Make this a two-way street. Or the whole thing will eventually fail.