[rachel2290]

Does it work when I urinate just right after ejaculation enters? What are the chances of getting pregnant?

[redhed35]

The chances of getting pregnant are quite high!

You need proper contraception..

What age are you?

Really if you don't know this stuff you should not be having sex,every time you have sex even with contraception there is a chance of pregnancy,don't have sex if you don't want a baby.. its as simple as that.

[rachel2290]

I'm 19, my boyfriend and I use condom but sometimes we don't, it's not the same, I want to start taking pills but he doesn't want because he says it might get me steril

[redhed35]

Has he any proposels for if YOU get pregnant?

Use condoms all the time or get some type of contraception... if you visit your doctor he/she will give you lots of information.

There are many forms of birth control on the market now,get informed,both of you and make an informed decision.

There are millions of women who take the pill every day for years and have not become sterile...

However,if you continue playing russain roulette with his spearm and your overies you going to hit the jack pot and you will both be parents...

I strongly suggest to consider a visit and get informed.

I also suggest you re educate yourselves on the reproduction system and sex education.

I am not saying that to be smart with you,only to suggest you both realise the implications of unprotected sex.

There is a mountain of information on the internet,also health clinics and well women centres if there in your area..

When you find out these things you will be more in control of your body and how it works,then you and your boyfriend can high five each other for being responsibility and mature..

[Synnen]

If you do not want to get pregnant, don't have sex. Period.

NO birth control is 100% effective except abstinence.

I suggest you talk to your doctor TOGETHER about your options.

[rachel2290]

Yeah, but I don't have inssurance, that makes it more difficult, I'm trying to save money to go and check myself

[redhed35]

How about a well women centre in your area or a family planning clinic?

[rachel2290]

I was looking for some stuff but there is no help is those kind of stuffs, maybe charity care, but that's more if u are sick

[redhed35]

Then I suggest you use condoms all the time until you can.

Urinating after sex will not prevent pregnancy...

And only because its worth saying twice. Use comdoms!

[justcurious55]

Where are you? Why not planned parenthood? They can help you even if you don't have insurance. Or, even better, as suggested before, don't have sex. You think you can't afford contraception... try affording raising a child. Because is a whole lot cheaper than diapers, bottles, baby furniture, car seat, stroller, baby dr visits, not to mention your own pre-natal care, then there's maternity clothes, and baby clothes, formula, baby food, baby toys. Bet because isn't looking so expensive anymore compared to the alternative.

[rachel2290]

Thank u so much to u both

[justcurious55]

Another thing I forgot to add, the decision to use hormonal because is between you and your dr. it is not up to your boyfriend. You can take his feelings into consideration. But ultimately, you need to make the decision for you. You cannot base it on his ignorant assumptions.

[smoothy]

You both need to have someone who knows about these things talk to you both. Its clear neither of you were awake in health class if you were in the USA... not sure if they teach these basic things in schools outside the USA if that's where you are.

Because based on what was said about you both its clear neither of you understand contraception or human reproduction. Its not intended as a smart remark, its intended to get you to learn more before you find yourself expectant parents without a clue how that happened and why.

If you knew your own anatomy you would understand why your assumption in the original question is so wrong.

Take a mirror and look at yourself down there you will see a small opening above the vagina where you pee. The vaginal opening below that is where you have intercourse... its clear why urinating after, before or during sex can't possibly have any effect with any sperm left behind because they aren't in the same hole... and has been said a great number of times... sperm are microscopic... it only takes a single one to get you pregnant and there are hundreds of millions in the average guys ejaculate. And the buggers are even coming out before he ejaculates. Which is why with drawl is stupid to use as birth control.

Crossing your fingers and praying is NOT an effective contraception method.