[rhampton26]

In October my just recent fiancé, which I had been with almost seven years, just up and left when she went on vacation. She than did not come back home, leaving me hanging without a phone call or reason. Than she calls the day after she was suppose to return home and told me it was over!! I asked why and she said I would not understand and that she needed to be with her family. So now a month has gone by and she has been talking to me and telling me she loves me but doesn't know what we are. I am getting more and more sad because we live together for seven years also, and its so hard to be without her, what can I do to get her home, will it work with her in another state. Help me please!!

[Romefalls19]

All you can do is let her go like she wants. This is what she chose, for whatever reason she wanted out. You have to respect that

[codiwilloughby]

In my opinion, just let her know how you feel about the situation. The best thing to do when women wigg out like this is to stay cool. Think and assess the situation and think back on ANY behavior that could've triggered the break up. I feel sorry for you, I really do but if she is willing to up and leave for no reason, than she isn't worth it. You had your good times and your bad and now it's time to move on.

[amicon]

You have my sympathy, it's a tough call.
There's not a lot you can do as there is no real communication about this.
I suggest you read the stickies at the top of the relationship page with good advice how to cope with a breakup.

[emopunk7]

Give a lot more information please!

[paxe]

It's tough but it's no magic. You have to apply the read the stickies on top and apply them. Start No Contact ASAP, 7 years is a long time, so you'll need more time to heal but you WILL heal.