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Friend into girlfriend
OK so this is the story: I have known this girl for a while now and at one point she was obsessed with me but I never made a move and she went on to liking someone else. They just broke up the other day, and while they were dating I noticed that I started to grow feelings for her. Then she tells me one of herfriends likes me so I ask her out to a dance. Now I guess me and this other girl are dating, but the other day my friend (that I have feelings for , not the girl I'm daating now) broke up with the other guy and that night I notice I LOVE her. For me this is strange because I'm only just getting into high school and I didn't expect feelings like this to happen to me yet. This weekend I told her my feelings about her and she seemed happy and that she would want to go out with me, but I never told her flat out that I LOVE her, I just said I like her, you know, like every high schooler says nowadays. But now I'm in a trap. This is because the girl I'm going out with now I do have feelings for her but they aren't the same to the other girl, AND she's the girl I loves best friend. So I know that if I break up with her to go out with the one I love she will hate her, and then she will go into a depression(the one I'm dating now). So please tell me how to get myself out of this without hurting my GF now so I can date the one I love. Thank you:(
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You have yourself in quite a triangle...
First of all - follow your heart. If you know the girl your with now isn't the one you want to be with - don't beat around the bush with her - tell her straight out the truth. She may get upset, she may be hurt, but it's a lot better than leading her on, which will hurt worse in the end. You do have to be careful though, because if the two girls are friends, by breaking up with one - you may hurt your chances with the other. Girls are freakish little es in high school (And believe me, I'm all female, I know how we work :) ) Chances are the whole deal will be blown out of proportion for a while, and when things cool down it'll all work out. So go after the girl you feel you should be with. Don't hesitate... you never know what you could miss out on. :) |
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