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markharry · Oct 27, 2009, 06:10 AM

I met my girlfriend in bad circumstances, looked after and helped her out when she was in a bad state. She had split with her husband about three to four months after we got together. To begin with we were just friends. But it went further than than that. I finacially supported her loved and gave her emotional support. Since she got pregnant after we emigrated she has been moody mean and a . She had no time for me, and all I did was just annoy her. I have had to go away for a few months for personal reasons something I can't get out of. We had been rowing, before I left. She has now decided that her ex the man that won't support the kids and left in the is better than me. I wonder is this down to hormones. She will not talk to me or take phone calls. Only emails she answers one line emails. I have all but given up.

JudyKayTee · Oct 27, 2009, 06:16 AM

Maybe it's hormones, maybe it's not. Has she reconciled with her husband or ex-husband (whichever he is)?

Perhaps you were more fun as a boyfriend behind her husband's back than you are as a "legal" boyfriend.

Let's see - she was married to him and took up with you. Then she (apparently) left him to be with you. Now she's leaving you to be with him.

Do I have this straight?

markharry · Oct 27, 2009, 06:51 AM

Originally Posted by markharry

I met my girlfriend in bad circumstances, looked after and helped her out when she was in a bad state. She had split with her husband about three to four months after we got together. To begin with we were just friends. But it went further than than that. I finacially supported her loved and gave her emitional support. Since she got pregnant after we emigrated she has been moody mean and a . She had no time for me, and all I did was just annoy her. I have had to go away for a few months for personal reasons something I can't get out of. We had been rowing, before I left. She has now decided that her ex the man that wont support the kids and left in the is better than me. I wonder is this down to hormones. She will not talk to me or take phone calls. Only emails she answers one line emails. I have all but given up.

She left him before I met her.

J_9 · Oct 27, 2009, 07:13 AM

Originally Posted by markharry

She left him before I met her.

You are contradicting yourself.

Originally Posted by markharry

She had split with her husband about three to four months after we got together.

markharry · Oct 27, 2009, 07:29 AM

Originally Posted by markharry

She left him before I met her.

Sorry she left him before she met me

JudyKayTee · Oct 27, 2009, 10:59 AM

I lose all faith in the poster when he can't keep a story straight. I'll post your original quote again ("I met my girlfriend in bad circumstances, looked after and helped her out when she was in a bad state. She had split with her husband about three to four months after we got together. ")

You changed that information in order to get a different answer.

You were running with a married woman who got sick of her husband. Now she's sick of you.

It's as simple as that.

markharry · Oct 27, 2009, 11:37 AM

No it was a typing error sorry I am not very good at typing

JudyKayTee · Oct 27, 2009, 11:53 AM

My advice is still the same - she got sick of him and got together with you. Now she's sick of you.

Alty · Oct 27, 2009, 12:25 PM

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I met my girlfriend in bad circumstances, looked after and helped her out when she was in a bad state.

And now she doesn't need you anymore. You were a rebound.

She had split with her husband about three to four months after we got together. To begin with we were just friends. But it went further than than that. I finacially supported her loved and gave her emotional support.

I read the other posts. I'll give you the benefit of the doubt about this being a typing error. If she hooked up with you 4 months after she left her husband then she just needed someone to support her, give her money, and be there. Like I said, you were a rebound.

Since she got pregnant after we emigrated she has been moody mean and a . She had no time for me, and all I did was just annoy her.

Could be hormones, but more likely it's that she doesn't need or want you anymore. That's what usually happens with a rebound relationship.

I have had to go away for a few months for personal reasons something I can't get out of. We had been rowing, before I left. She has now decided that her ex the man that won't support the kids and left in the is better than me.

Love is blind. Obviously she's decided that this is the man she wants. It doesn't have to make sense, it just is what it is.

She will not talk to me or take phone calls. Only emails she answers one line emails. I have all but given up.

Sounds like she's trying to get you out of her life. Is the baby yours? You will have to support the child but that doesn't mean that she has to have a relationship with you. It's sad, but often this is the way things go.