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NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 07:05 AM

I'm 15 and I think that I could be pregnant. Me and my boyfriend used protection but when he came the condom fell off in me. It was INSIDE me. I'm worried that semen came out of the condom. I think it was my first day of ovulation. It has only been 4 days since that happened. I know my mom will help me... I'm not so sure about my dad. If he kicks me out I know his mom will let me live with them. My boyfriend knows that I could be pregnant and he is working 2 jobs; well has been. I'm getting a job in January when I have my restricted license... at least I'm going to try and get one. I'm not scared about being pregnant. Also, I'm not asking this question for negative input. I just want to know what are my chances that I'm pregnant?

J_9 · Oct 22, 2009, 07:15 AM

Your chances are 50/50. You now have to wait until you miss your period, then test using first morning urine.

Remember that there are health consequences involved with being pregnant at your age.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 07:19 AM

Yes, I know there is... if I am pregnant all I want is for my baby to be healthy. I won't even know if I am pregnant for a while... and the "baby" has already become my world...

15teenandscared · Oct 22, 2009, 01:02 PM

You could be pregnant.
Look at me I'm 15 me and my boyfriend has had sex 4 times. Only twice with a condom. I think I'm pregnant. The only difference between our stories is that my mom most likely won't agree with my pregancy and my dad won't neither. I can't tell my parents. Only me and my boyfriend and a friend know. It harder for me than you. Just maybe look at the bright side (if there is one) you will have someone that will always love you and that you will always love. Only thing bad is that both me and you are WAYYYYY TOO YOUNG TOO B DEALING WITH THIS.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 07:26 PM

My mom was a pregnant teen she's really open about things... me and my boyfriend have only had sex about that many times.. but we always used a condom.. but condoms aren't 100 percent ]:... and the whole having someone who will always love you thing is exaclty what I told my boyfriend... yea we are way to young to deal with this.. but... ig this is the consequence**sp** that come with doing grown up things

J_9 · Oct 22, 2009, 07:45 PM

Originally Posted by 15teenandscared

look at the bright side (if there is one) you will have someone that will always love you and that you will always love. only thing bad is that both me and you are WAYYYYY TOO YOUNG TOO B DEALING WITH THIS.!

Ladies, this isn't the "bright" side. Babies aren't born loving you. They are born totally and completely dependent on you. Babies don't have the ability to love for several years.

Teens typically mistake bonding with love, but that is furthest from the truth. Babies are capable of eating, peeing, pooping, sleeping and crying. They depend on you for EVERYTHING. When you have been awake for over 24 hours with a sick crying colicy baby, you won't really be feeling the love either. Take it from me. I am not only a labor and delivery/nursery nurse, but also a mother of 4.

brittanymommy08 · Oct 22, 2009, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by J_9

Ladies, this isn't the "bright" side. Babies aren't born loving you. They are born totally and completely dependent on you. Babies don't have the ability to love for several years.

Teens typically mistake bonding with love, but that is furthest from the truth. Babies are capable of eating, peeing, pooping, sleeping and crying. They depend on you for EVERYTHING. When you have been awake for over 24 hours with a sick crying colicy baby, you won't really be feeling the love either. Take it from me. I am not only a labor and delivery/nursery nurse, but also a mother of 4.

She is right, I'm 19 with two kids, my little girl is a year old next month and I'm due any day with my son, there are many nights I wish I wasn't a mother at my age, it is hard. Plus at your age I wasn't doing what you are doing, all I have to say if you are be ready to grow up and accept a beautiful joyful child, just remember they didn't ask to be here, there will be many every FOUR hour feeding and you have to do it, they DEPEND on YOU!
I would love to be away at college, or out partying, just realize you are only young once and you don't have to have sx and if you are and I know you are or you wouldn't be here asking IF IM PREGNANT, be safe, use every type of birth control you can,
I'm not looking down on you, but live your teenage life to the fullest, it's hard being in the real world going to school, working, raising kids, making sure they have everything they need and want, making sure your bills are paid. You don't realize it until you are doing it alone, and plus if you are pregnant are you sure the guy will stick around just to let you know I thought that tooo my little girls daddy left when she was three days old, and I don't hear from him but maybe once every four months, and he won't pay child support soi have been doing it alone with him. Just think about what you are doing?

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 08:06 PM

I understand a sick screaming baby... my sister lives with us she has a baby... she hasn't finished "growing up" so I've had to take care of him plenty of times to understand that. I understand about most things about taking care of a baby. I know it will be harder once it is my own... my mom had all 4 of us kids young but she did it... and none of us have ever had to do without. I think I can do the same for my baby (if I'm pregnant). I don't think that at all times I'm going to be the best parent in the world but I'm going to try my hardest to be every second of the day. I can still get my education and be a teenager and be a mom.. I know I can. If I am not pregnant I'm going to do what I was planning on doing and waiting till marriage to have sex again. It was a mistake for me to lose my virginity in the first place. Hormones got the best of me. I know you're thinking that I just said I was planning on waiting till marriage but I did it anyway but after this kind of scare I'm waiting. To tell the truth I'm actually a really good girl.. and none of this was what I planned. But, If this is what is intended for me than so be it. I don't believe in abortions and I believe I can give my baby a good home life so there's no need for adoption. I can't turn back time and I can't fix any of my mistakes. All I can do is learn from them.

brittanymommy08 · Oct 22, 2009, 08:13 PM

All I'm saying, if you are life will be hard
And I'm sorry to say, you won't have no teenage years like normal highchool life,
I thought the same thing, I just graduated this
Past may, and that night I was home with my little girl, all I'm saying is IF you are be ready to change everything, and no it not a mistake,
It just have waited, my kids are no mistake, they are really the best thing that happen to me, and right now, don't be stressing over being pregnant if you're not it will throw your period off.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 08:23 PM

I get that my life will be hard... babies cost a lot of money. But, if I am pregnant I know my mom will help me take care of it. And so will his mom. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We lost our virginity's to each other in the 11th month. I've never drank, did drugs, partied, smoked... nothing. I just chose to show my love in a grown up way. As for birth control, my doctor won't let me get it until he can check if I have Endometriosis, because he thinks I have it. My mom has been delaying the apointment every month. But, me and my boyfriend have used condoms every time. We've had sex 5 times. I know the only thing that is 100 percent is abstinence. No the baby won't be a mistake not at all to me... a beautiful blessing. Yes, a blessing that could have waited. But, once again.. I can't go back and change things. And I'm not really stressing and I have irregular periods anyway.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 08:38 PM

And yes I know he's going to stay here for me... he Isn't like all other guys... and He's been my best friend for forever. He

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 22, 2009, 08:39 PM

(sorry,I don't know what I pressed) wouldn't leave me like that.

J_9 · Oct 23, 2009, 01:07 AM

Originally Posted by NvRShoutSabrina

and yes I know he's going to stay here for me...he Isn't like all other guys....and He's been my best friend for forever. He

Unfortunately, that's what most unwed teen mothers think. He'll promise the moon until the going gets tough, then he will get going. Again, speaking from experience.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 23, 2009, 06:23 AM

Ah, no! He Isn't going to leave. Our relationship is realllly a lot different than you would even begin to understand.

J_9 · Oct 23, 2009, 06:27 AM

Sabrina... As a mother and a labor and delivery nurse, your relationship is not any different than I would begin to understand. Believe it or not, I've seen it all!!

You have no idea how easy it is for the guy to just walk out of the picture when the going gets tough and the money is tight. What if he finds another gal that doesn't have a baby and has time to party and do teen things?

This is NOT a put down, but at your young age I think life is a lot different than you would begin to understand. You are only at your prime... you have not even begun to climb the hill that is life, while I am over that hill and looking back at some of the foolish things I have done that my children are now doing.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 23, 2009, 07:10 AM

Me and him have been through a lot together. If he wanted to leave when the going got tough he would have left a long time ago. And he doesn't even like to party... he likes music, working, and doing car stuff with his friends. I know this is random in here but what makes having sex so much worse and or different than doing drugs or drinking or smoking? And the whole life thing yeah, there is a lot of things in life I haven't gotten to experience yet... but I'm going to eventually need to.

J_9 · Oct 23, 2009, 07:15 AM

What's different between having sex and doing drugs... smoking or drinking? Well, sex doesn't ruin brain and/or lung cells the way that drugs, smoking or drinking does.

However, if you aren't ready for the consequences it creates an entirely different set of problems.

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 23, 2009, 07:20 AM

I think doing all the other stuff is worse... I'm not like whoring around or anything... I'm with the same person I lost my virginity to. He was a virgin too... so there is no STD's. Pregnancy is the biggest factor... and unless I were to have a bad pregnancy.. I don't think it would kill me.. or the baby. I have some friends who are teen moms... only they got pregnant a LOT younger than me... and they're doing it... still going to school... and still having a teenage life. And I'm not saying just because they're doing it and are fine it doesn't mean I will be. I'm just saying it is possible.

J_9 · Oct 23, 2009, 07:27 AM

Originally Posted by NvRShoutSabrina

I think doing all the other stuff is worse...I'm not like whoring around or anything...I'm with the same person I lost my virginity to. He was a virgin too ... so there is no STD's. Pregnancy is the biggest factor ... and unless I were to have a bad pregnancy .. I don't think it would kill me.. or the baby. I have some friends who are teen moms...only they got pregnant a LOT younger than me ... and they're doing it ... still going to school... and still having a teenage life. And I'm not saying just because they're doing it and are fine it doesn't mean I will be. I'm just saying it is possible.

You are very right that the other stuff is worse... but there are some very serious risks involved with teen pregancy. Your friends are lucky, but you may not be. Why risk that chance?

NvRShoutSabrina · Oct 23, 2009, 07:34 AM

I never intended getting pregnant at my age. I never even planned on having sex at my age... I wanted to wait until the night of my wedding for as long as I can remember. It just happened... The thing is though I can't turn back time. I can't go back and stop me and him from having sex to prevent this situation. What I can do though is face this head on. If I'm pregnant I'm telling my mom the second I find out then I'm telling my dad (that's going to be the worst) He is going to tell his mom if I am. And if my dad kicks me out I'll be able to stay with him... his mom already said if something goes on at my house I can always stay with them. Plus, she wouldn't let the mother of her grandchild be homeless. If I'm not pregnant I'm going to stress on my mom more to go get me checked for Endometriosis so I can get on birth control and I'm going to try to abstain from any kind of sex. But that's why I'm going to try harder to get on birthcontrol, just in case it happenes like before. If me and him do have sex again we are going to continue to use condoms and be a lot more careful about it.