[Jifcrunchy]

I started dating this one girl after I met her visiting a friend. She lives in a different province but I'm out here visiting. We've been together unofficialy for about a year and halfway through that we said we love each other. I've been out visiting her for about 3-4 months. It was a little rocky at first since we had only really talked by texts and by phone but we pulled through it. She's got a few emotional problems, mostly family oriented and I've learned to respect those. But now I feel like there's a problem she just doesn't seem as interested in me as she did before. She still says she loves me and I'm crazy in love with her, but I'm almost certain something is wrong, she hasn't brought anything up though. Im not sure what I should do.

[summer7]

Hi,
You should talk with her. Have a heart to heart with her and put it all on the table. Let her know that you love her and that you want the relationship to work. Ask her how she's feeling. Don't just let her stew over her problem. Encourage her to talk about it.

[I wish]

It's possible her problems are keeping you away from her. But it sounds more like she doesn't like you as much as you think.

Actions speak louder than words. Telling you that she loves you doesn't mean anything if she doesn't match those words with actions.

You definitely need to figure out where she stands. If she's not in the same place as you, then you need to find someone else who feels the same way about you.

[Jifcrunchy]

Thanks summer, I did just that and everything worked out, I really appreciate the time you took to read what I wrote and help me =)

[talaniman]

What was the problem? The distance?