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    babygalrachii Posts: 24, Reputation: -3
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    Oct 14, 2009, 06:08 PM
    I hate being single!
    I have wanted a long relationship for a long time but something always happens I have dated a lot of guys but there always the popular ones so all they want is action but I actually want love (and I'm not going to date a nerd) (I'm the head cheerleader I have a good rep right now can't rewin it)
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    Oct 14, 2009, 06:20 PM

    Sorry, if you only want to date the shallow guys who only want most likely sex, then you are going to get what you are going to get from those type of guys.

    And if you won't date anyone but the most popular ones then it is you that have the problem
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    jaime90 Posts: 1,157, Reputation: 163
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    Oct 15, 2009, 09:57 AM

    You need to broaden your horizons, and open your mind. Who cares if you date a nerd, if he loves you and you love him? If you care- then you really aren't looking for love- you're looking to be the popular, high-maintence girlfriend that "every girl" wishes they were. If that's your mind set- you need to change it. Stop feeling the pressure like you NEED a boyfriend, and then you wouldn't end up with jerkish dudes. You don't need a boyfriend. Unless you're ready to get married, don't even bother dating.
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    Oct 17, 2009, 12:58 AM

    Lol lady... all I can say is... your dumb. Haha your probably going (that doesn't help me!) But... I'm guessing your in high school.. well guesss what? I'm the (and this is what people say about me)

    The Hottest, buffest/Most Riped hopeless romanticly Looking Red Head anyone has ever met... oh and I'm going in the marines so I got the whole "Super Hero Protecter" esk persona going on...

    And Guess what? I was a totall looser nerd in high school.. no really.. but I was the kid that would go all out for any chick I fell in love with... just took me awhile and guess what?? A (HOT chick) to turn me around and make me actually Care how I looked, and I turned out to be an awesome guy...

    So find someone that makes you happy.. talk to a lot of people.. stay away from the posers and the players... and well... find people who are true... and you will find someone.

    Plus honestly relationships in high school are a joke... honestly id say Hold your V-card as long as you can(assuming you still have it), that way by the time your in college, you WILL find an awesome guy with pride who would treat you like a Queen...
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    Oct 17, 2009, 01:20 AM

    You may think this is strange, because I even was surprised. I finally went to a class reunion last year. Ok, Ok it was my 20th year class reunion. I was so shocked to see that most of the guys I wouldn't think of dating in HS where the most attactive and interesting not to mention most accomplished people. And the guys that I thought of as so hot back in the day where, devorced drunks that had lost their charm. If I had only had this info back then... Oh well, some things are best learned over time or experience.
    I liked the single life. You can have a lot of fun being single.
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    Oct 27, 2009, 03:42 PM

    You should date me lol. I was an all county wide receiver and I just got dumped by my girlfriend who was the captain of the poms team ha
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    Oct 27, 2009, 04:01 PM
    :) how old are you? I don't think you should worry about finding a relationship right now. Based on your question I would focus more on school! Enjoy your single time you will have plenty of time to worry about it later.
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