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    horselover_922 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 6, 2009, 10:49 PM
    My boyfriend and I just are not having sex like we use to, is it me?
    Hello,
    I feel kind of weird for posting this.. but my boyfriend and I have been on and off for the past 3 three years. When we first started dating (about the first 6 months) we use to have sex everywhere we could and all the time. We both enjoyed it at first but I guess it started wearing off, when we broke up and I got with another guy and was with him for like a year. When I ended up getting back with him we had sex yes but he told me that he was only going to give it to me every 2 weeks, and at times I saw myself going for like 3 sometimes 4 weeks without any sex. I am just wondering if I am doing anything wrong if not what can I do to make it better, more often or at least 2 to 3 times a week.
    Thank you
    horselover_922
    p.s. he says that he just can't perform everyday let alone more than once a day.. is he just trying to get out of sex or can some guys just not be able to perform as much as others?
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    artlady Posts: 4,208, Reputation: 1477
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    Oct 6, 2009, 10:59 PM

    Sex does have a tendency to slack off after the first year.
    If everything else is good in the relationship ,I would simply seduce him.
    If he is tired,tell him all he has to do is lay back and you will do all the work.
    Compliment him and make him feel special and then just seduce.Don't ask him,just sort of take over and see what happens.

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