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    natakomn Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 27, 2009, 10:52 AM
    My husband won't have sex with me
    I have been married for I year and I am with my husband for 3 years.
    I have a problem with him. When we have sex I fel grate. But we do not have often every 10-15 days. I have to wait for him to approach. If I do that he gets agry sometmes or his finds a rediqulous reason to avoid it, like I have a stomach ache.. I wear sexy clothes but some times he ignores it.When I discuss it he becomes very angry and he screems.
    He says I am like that I do not know when or where and its spontaneous... sO so Do not ask me . I ffel like a beggar and it I do not know how to behave,
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    Sep 27, 2009, 11:01 AM

    What can you do is ignore him. Next time he wants to do it say no. start wering sexy clothes in front on him and aways from him that should work.
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    Sep 27, 2009, 11:11 AM

    Has this situation always existed between you,or is it a recent thing?

    Does he believe that the man in the relationship should initiate sex?
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    Sep 27, 2009, 08:17 PM

    You should not be begging for affection.

    Withholding of affection is a bad form of abuse

    Google the term "Withholding"
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    Sep 27, 2009, 09:41 PM

    I'm not sure if you face this problem after your marriage, but if yes, something wrong with you hubby's feeling. You should understand your hubb'ys situaton and feeling, might be he was stress of work, finance, or others.. who knows? Try to find out his problem, understand and solve it. Might be you could have to plan for some private vacation? This if you love your marriage, and believe its should work.
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