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    Luv_My_Reece Posts: 26, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 29, 2006, 06:42 PM
    Is it worth keeping?
    :( My boyfriend and I rarely see each other, about once a week. I am a senior in high school and he is a freshman in a local community college. We both work a lot of hours so it's hard for us to spend time together. That's not really the problem though, the problem is that he doesn't seem to have time for me, yet every time I talk to him (which is less than 30 minutes total in a day) he is with someone (usually a girl) out somewhere doing who knows what. He seems to still be hung up on his ex and her daughter who is 2. They've been broken up for a while now and I'm pregnant by my ex. He also always tells me he doesn't want kids for 10 years, even though he knows I am pregnant. Sometimes he can be so sweet but other times he's just a jerk. How can I tell if he really cares about me like he says he does and how can I get him to spend time with me once in awhile. And what should I say when he talks about not wanting kids for 10 years when I'll have one is a few months? Any advise would be appreciated.:(
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    Oct 29, 2006, 07:18 PM
    Nope, not worth it! Do the good days or times outweight the bad? You have a child to worry about and don't need the stress it is causing. I didn't seem like he wants to be with you. You shouldn't have to make him want to spend time with you. It is a two way street and one person can't do all the work.
    When he says he doesn't want kids tell him "Good thing mines not yours", or better yet dump him and move on with your life. You will meet somebody else that wants to be with you, your baby and you deserve it! Think about all the cute guys in college you will meet!
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    Oct 30, 2006, 05:49 AM
    You have issues and he has issues, your pregnant and he has a child. Red flags everywhere . Neither of you is ready for a relationship and you both should be trying to resolve the things that are important The kids. You are all over the place , pregnant, and already in another relationship?? Long distance at that?? Concentrate on school and getting a healthy baby in the world and leave everything and everybody alone for now. Work on yourself and your own issues.
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    Oct 30, 2006, 01:42 PM
    I agree with Tal 100% - said it all.
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