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jadeliam123 · Sep 18, 2009, 10:27 PM

I have beeen with my patner for a year now I love him 2 bits an I think he loves me he tells me all the time but it seems like he's losing interest what can I do 2 make things better? X

mudweiser · Sep 18, 2009, 10:35 PM

Have you talked to him about this?

Do you have any examples ?

Any major changes?

Sarah

jadeliam123 · Sep 18, 2009, 10:39 PM

Yes we have talked but not sat down he just keeps saying course I love you. It seems like he would rather spend time with he's mates rather than me but when we first got 2geva he used 2 love being with me I don't know what's wrong with him?

mudweiser · Sep 18, 2009, 10:43 PM

Do you sit around at home all day?

I suggest you get busy yourself!

Keep talking to him. Don't let it end at "of course I love you".

Give him an example like : "Remember the time when Jim asked you to go to the bar and we planned a romantic night, when you ditched me it made me feel _________."

Let him know what exactly he did and how it made you feel.

Talk over dinner or lunch. Make it casual not so so serious that he thinks he's in trouble.

Communication is key to all relationships.

Sarah

jadeliam123 · Sep 18, 2009, 10:47 PM

I said to him remember the time you left me and webt out with your mates and he just brought up a time when I left him and went out lol

mudweiser · Sep 18, 2009, 11:02 PM

If this is repetitive behavior then both you and him need to work on that issue.

Does it seem that when you say "remember the time you _____" he comes back and reminds you of your own mistakes? Does he do that often? Perhaps if you change your own behavior he will change too.

There is no use in having a conversation if the pot is going to be calling the kettle black ;)

Sarah

talaniman · Sep 19, 2009, 11:01 AM

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/pregna...ge-397694.html

According to your other posts, your 17, and having unprotected sex, so maybe one of you, or maybe both of you is changing because your're growing from kids, into adults. This is where you learn to talk, and listen, and see if you are still going to move forward.

If your both worried about you being pregnant, that can get in the way of a lot of good times, as for sure babies are a life changing event.