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    Ryan907 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Sep 17, 2009, 11:27 PM
    Child and Parent problems
    Ok so my mom really makes me mad alot because she yells at me wont let me ask out this girl i like which made me loose my chance with her! and my mom is always trying to treat me like a frigin baby which i hate.. Im 13years old yet she trys to control me.. always making me do things i resent... tryn make me cut my hair... yelllin at me and taking things away... doesnt let me hang out with my friends.... I HATE IT AND IM ALWAYS THINKING ABOUT taking my sisters money in her room and running away for good!!!!! i should be thinking like this but i think about it everyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1 HELP ME because she made me loose my chance with this girl I REALLY Love and.... ya she loved me back but my mom nvr let me have a chance................... :(:mad::mad::mad:
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    Ryan907 Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 17, 2009, 11:28 PM

    I shouldn't be thinking like this**********
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    Sep 18, 2009, 11:55 PM

    You are only 13

    Just listen o your mother
    She trying to raise you right
    Yeah there are things you aren't going
    To want to do. But in the end you could
    Be surpised with how your mother reacts
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    Sep 20, 2009, 06:10 PM

    Its not 'im 13 years old YET she controls me'

    Its 'you are ONLY 13 years old, and SHE SHOULD control you'
    At least in the dating aspect.
    You are too young to be worried about girls.

    But that's just my opinion.
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    Sep 20, 2009, 06:41 PM

    How could you possibly lose (not "loose") a girl whose mother won't let her date yet either? Aren't you creative enough to think of fun and sweet things you can do without dating?

    Do you two attend the same school or church? Write her a cute letter (and be sure to check your spelling - no worse turnoff than a guy who can't spell) and draw some silly pictures to make her laugh. Write her a poem. Tell her jokes and ask her riddles (library has lots of books to help). My first boyfriend was when I was 13 and he was a year ahead of me. We didn't date, of course, but we hung out together in our church's youth group and got to be good friends and ended up going to the same college. As for being creative, he took Latin in h.s. so would write me short notes in Latin. I didn't marry him, but I still have those notes. (I took Latin in h.s. too -- maybe so I could translate his notes!)

    Stop being so dramatic! Use your brain and your imagination. Be friends with girls now. When you drive and have the use of a car, you will be so glad you established that kind of a foundation with them.

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