[happygirl14]

Hello again. Please read all of this and I will try to help you with anything you need. *** another new guy... they just all seem to run off... dumasses. (: anyway. Last year at my school around February 2009... I saw this guy who sat near me at lunch almost everyday until the end of the school year June 2009. Well I was in seventh grade at the time.. he was in 8th... well I had this big crush on him. But had never talked to him... well just about... 3 weeks ago... I started talking to him. So like right away I had fallen for him. Because I have been waiting for him since like February. Well he goes to the school across from mine so I could see him everyday... but he's in high school (9th grade) I'm in 8th grade... middle school. Well in my opinion he's not the tyipical guy.. he isn't a whore. He barely even wants anything to do with girls... well anyway I started talking to him over the phone.. being a little flirty and all... and he knows I like him.. well I just don't know... im pretty sure he doesn't like me... and I'm afraid if I keep hanging on I might get hurt. So I don't know whether to keep talking to him or not. Its like we text.. and he doesn't say much but I think he always is like that. So I don't know. Its mainly just " (: and lol " haha. So I don't know. Should I keep talking to him... and find out if he likes me... because I have only talked to him once in person... or not? I try to see if he wants to meet up.. and he doesn't say much so any advice? On what I should do?

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Ask him if he likes you. Ask him on a date. It's 2009, girls can ask guys now too. It's not taboo. Good luck, tell us how it goes.

[Mayniac]

There a thousands of similar questions on Yahoo answers (all from girls). You should check them out sometime.
I'll give you the same answer I give all of those thousands- approach him about going out on a date (don't say the d word to him though)- ask him if he wants to see a film, go for coffee, whatever you prefer. If you connect, tell him it would be nice to do it again sometime and build on it.
ChihuahuaMomma basically summed this up. What would be considered role reversal in the mid 20th century is okay now. Just don't be shy with him.