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    hatedsooul Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 5, 2009, 10:12 PM
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    Hi..
    I am very depressed and disappointed from my life.It seems that there is no one who truly understands me,my family expects me to do well in every field and I am just not able to sustain.I can't share to anyone what I am going through.Life has become nasty for me and I just want to get away from it.24 years of worthlessness... n I think its time to get rid from life
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    Sep 5, 2009, 10:22 PM

    If you can share it here (thousands of people view this site), why can't you share it with a counselor? It sounds like you need to reassess your goals.
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Sep 6, 2009, 02:47 AM

    Does it really matter what everybody else thinks you should do,what do you want to do.

    Wondergirl is right,you need to reassess your goals and your life.

    Perhaps a total career change,or just a time out,go travelling.

    Get back to the beginging and find out who you are and what you want from YOUR life.

    What will make you happy?

    Keep asking the questions,find your mojo for life... find your love of life.

    A career guidance councillor or therapist as wondergirl suggested is a start.
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    Sep 6, 2009, 05:52 AM

    Why can't you just tell everyone that you can't do it all. In fact why are you trying to do anything except what you want to do at 24. If you want to walk away and start a new life, then do it
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    Sep 6, 2009, 12:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by redhed35 View Post
    keep asking the questions,find your mojo for life...find your love of life.
    Perfect encouragement, red! (I have to spread the love, otherwise you would have gotten a greenie from me.)

    This could be the most exciting time so far in life -- to find out who you are and what possibilities there are ahead of you. To be young and smart and open to ideas -- how I envy you!

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