[nina90]

I'm 18 yrs soon to be 19 in 4months. My boyfriend just turned 19 and we been together for 3yrs already and recently had a bby that now is 1yr old=] I have avery high sex drive=]] I love to have sex but I can't get my boyfriend to have sex with me anymore.. I have to beg him to have sex and most of the time I get regected:( when we were first going out we had sex 3 time a day every week... then it went from 3 times a day to 2 time a week. Then when I got pregnant I wanted to have to even more but that's when he started to ignor me at night... he was always too tired to have sex... after the bby was born he wated to have sex but I had to wait 6 weeks to have sex.. but when the 6 weeks past he nothing happen=/ so I went into depression because he would always reject me andi felt ugly and fatbut it seem he didn't care... he has never cheated and he blams me for trying to have sex after he gets off wrk... then when we start to have sex I'm just getting all happywhen he lol he is a 1 or 2min guy and I hate that! I tell him to finish meand he will tell me to wait 5 min then he will for sum reason forget and he will get mad if I ask him to finish me=/ people saysex is not all that matters andit does matter because life is so boring without sex! I want a gay that can handle me and sometimes I want to leave my boyfriend but its hard these days to find a gay that would get with a girl with a bby... I still get looks when I go out with my friends so I no I'm not ugly=] please help me I need advise!

[Synnen]

My FIRST advice is that if you are an adult, TYPE like one.

I could barely make it through your post because of the chat speak.

My SECOND advice is to sit and talk to your boyfriend when you're NOT having sex about your sex life.

If you can't talk about sex with your partner, you're not going to have a decent sex life.