[deathkiissz]

I had a year with my x boyfreind he was 22 years old and I was 18. Our reationship was great we had a lot of fun together even though he had little money. I saw past it I loved him because he was my complete oppsite and everything I didn't have he completed. Until a family friend would bother him and flirt with him and ask him out to go out on events and that sort of stuff he had everything in his power to stop it even when the girl disrespected me and told me off he did nothing because he said she was a friend and she's stupid because I let her get to me well this was the cause of our break up this was 3 months ago id drop anything to be with him again and forget about the girl but do u guys consider this an act of cheating? And is it worth getting back together? And I feel like I can't be with any one else if it isn't him I find myself doing physco things and have serious lost all type of dignity I've had begging him to get back with him how do I get over him?

[artlady]

The bottom line is you can't force someone to love you or want to be with you.

As much as it hurts it is clear he has moved on and now you need to do the same.

It is not easy and it will take all your strength but it can be done.

This site is full of people who have used the no contact method of getting over a breakup.

Known here as NC!

Stay busy,do things with friends and get on with your life.

He has and you have to as well.

Be strong and you can survive this.People do it all the time.It takes work and determination but you will love again.
Someone that can love you in return.

Stay strong!

[talaniman]

A female worth having is one worth defending, he did not, and you did the right thing in choosing to end things, and now you must move on. HOW? By reading the stickies and giving yourself time to regroup, and rebuild a life that you enjoy without him in it. The stickies are full of excellent suggestions to help you accomplish that.