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kettlechips · Aug 26, 2009, 05:25 AM

Ok this is a bit embarrassing, but I had a dream and it was quite late this morning actually. It was around 10am and similar dreams I've had to this usually occur around that time.

I was dreaming that I was having sex (which I haven't done in real life).. but the person was invisible. In my mind I knew the person I was having sex with was a guy I really like and get on with really well.. but like I say he was invisible. I couldn't particularly feel his body either, just certain parts of me being touched. It was the kind of dream where I knew I was dreaming, and because it was late morning I knew that if I stopped I would wake up (which is what eventually happened). I woke up still feeling 'horny' around my breasts and vagina...

I know it might not sound like I was dreaming but believe me, it wasn't something I was doing while I was awake. I had woken up in the position I fell asleep in which is not how the dream ended, and I was fully clothed etc.

I also mentioned that I've had similar dreams. These dreams are exactly the same only the person wasn't anyone.. I was just having sex with an invisble human.. and the sex wasn't as good as the one in the dream I'm asking about. :confused:

A couple of useful facts about the guy which might help:
We met at a Christian camp.. he lives about 25miles away so we meet up once a month with other people from camp.
He says he likes someone else, but we are still great friends.
Im not just saying this.. although he is good looking I do NOT think about him in that way when I am with him, we are close friends who have a great laugh and I like him for his personality.

Basically if anyone knows how to interpret this dream, why he was invisible etc that would be great!

Capuchin · Aug 26, 2009, 05:29 AM

Sounds like you want to have sex with this guy.

He was probably invisible because you doubt if it will ever happen.

Mystery solved.

kettlechips · Aug 26, 2009, 05:50 AM

Originally Posted by Capuchin

Sounds like you want to have sex with this guy.

He was probably invisible because you doubt if it will ever happen.

Mystery solved.

Haha, I like your straight forward-ness. You're probably right, but with us both being Christians that won't happen until we're married, if we get married.

Which means you are right, cause I just said 'if' :p

Just another thing.. is it wrong to be so sexually attracted to him in my dream.. I mean like I said we have a great laugh and he's a lovely guy and I know it's not really WRONG to find his looks attractive it's just.. I don't want to think about him in that way too much.

You're probably just going to say 'Don't be silly!' but that's fine.. I just want reassurance :)

Capuchin · Aug 26, 2009, 06:05 AM

Originally Posted by kettlechips

Haha, i like your straight forward-ness. You're probably right, but with us both being Christians that won't happen until we're married, if we get married.

Which means you are right, cause i just said 'if' :p

Just another thing.. is it wrong to be so sexually attracted to him in my dream.. I mean like I said we have a great laugh and he's a lovely guy and I know it's not really WRONG to find his looks attractive it's just.. I don't want to think about him in that way too much.

You're probably just gonna say 'Don't be silly!' but that's fine.. I just want reassurance :)

It's normal and human and there's nothing wrong with it. :)

kettlechips · Aug 26, 2009, 06:08 AM

Thanks! =D

Capuchin · Aug 26, 2009, 06:12 AM

Originally Posted by kettlechips

Thanks! =D

But keep in mind that I'm atheist and may be giving ungodly advice :P. I like to think it's at least rational though.

kettlechips · Aug 26, 2009, 06:25 AM

Yeah it makes sense, it's not like you're saying I should have sex with him, you're just saying it's okay to feel that way. Besides I'm a teen so I probably can't help it!

TJ17 · Aug 26, 2009, 07:18 AM

Originally Posted by kettlechips

Yeah it makes sense, it's not like you're saying I should have sex with him, you're just saying it's okay to feel that way. Besides im a teen so I probably can't help it!

Everyone has dreams of having sex with someone they know or even with total strangers, you can't control your dreams... and believe me I've tried. ;)

It's only natural.

kettlechips · Aug 27, 2009, 09:08 AM

Haha yeah, dreams are pretty weird! Im just wondering what it means. But yeah, I suppose I don't have to feel guilty! Thanks =)

hheath541 · Aug 27, 2009, 09:23 AM

Since the dreams started with a non-person your mind may have just latched onto your friend as a way to enhance the experience. Also, having the dream person be someone who is real to you is probably what made it seem better. It just made the fantasy that much more believable.

kettlechips · Aug 27, 2009, 09:27 AM

Hmmm.. interesting. That makes sense!

mynameiskea · May 1, 2012, 08:37 AM

I have has some sexual dreams and I am now doing research about it. This could possibly relate tobyour spiritual husband (yeah, crazy right. Look up the spiritual husband. It will blow your mind) or some other demonic force. I know its not what you think it is.

hauntinghelper · May 1, 2012, 08:05 PM

Kettlechips - You are a Christian... Genesis 40:8
“We both had dreams,” they answered, “but there is no one to interpret them.” Then Joseph said to them, “Do not interpretations belong to God?"

Sexual dreams can be a vey natural way for your body to let off sexual tension... especially for guys... but dreams are also a very easy way for demonic entities to start gaining a foothold in your life.

Being a Christian does not mean you are not going to be attacked by spiritual forces, but it does mean you have authority over them! Demonic sexual encounters are not as uncommon as you think and this might be the beginning of a problem. For something to be this real and reoccurring for you I would start to pray and plead the Blood of Jesus over your mind every night before bed.