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S440160 · Aug 25, 2009, 07:28 PM

We both go to the same school, I want to tell her I like her but I don`t have the guts to do it, what should I do?

Clough · Aug 25, 2009, 09:52 PM

Hi, S440160!

How about telling her that "I really like you!", and leave it at that and see what she says. It doesn't have to be a lot of words that you use to see what she thinks. In return, her words might be, "I really like you, too!"

What do you think? Also, how do you know her and have the two of you ever done anything together, please?

Thanks!

helpmepleaseee · Aug 25, 2009, 10:39 PM

I agree, if you like her, go for it! It's never easy the first time and the more you try the easier it gets.. You aren't dating her now, and if you ask her out and she says "no" then nothing has changed, right? And if she says "yes", then that's great.. There's nothing to lose.

Clough · Aug 25, 2009, 11:17 PM

Yes, you can't "win" if you don't participate in playing the "game".

Thanks!

I wish · Aug 26, 2009, 06:13 AM

If you're asking this question, it means that you don't know her very well.

Why don't you spend some time getting to know her better and going with the flow.

Telling her that you like her before you know her well enough will just scare her away.

talaniman · Aug 27, 2009, 11:45 AM

Get some guts, and talk to her.

Supa Ninja · Aug 27, 2009, 12:29 PM

Don't take time to get to know her or you will fall into the terrible, unfortunate and hellish place called "Friends Zone." Go straight up to her with confidence and say hi and asked an open ended question like "where were you in blah blah class," or or make a statement like "man I can't believe jimmy peed his pants" just get a conversation flowing and wait for her to laugh, smile or say something funny. Then say, "wow, you have a great laugh/smile/you really funny/ etc... I LIKE YOU, my name is..." BOOOM

Supa Ninja · Aug 27, 2009, 12:31 PM

Try to find a reason that you like her that isn't about her looks, and kind of sneak it in there during a normal conversation, and then just keep going like nothing significant just happened. Takes balls, but works magic :)

LoveStoned · Aug 27, 2009, 11:18 PM

Supa, you reminded me of this one guy who approached me at the mall with "Excuse me I had to come over and say Hi because your just so sexy... ) Gee... I wonder what was on his mind... Anyway definitely start conversation with something you have in common and go from there...

N0help4u · Aug 29, 2009, 07:03 AM

Start small and work your way up.
Ask her if you can walk her home or ask her 'out' for a soda or lunch. Then work your way up.

jmjoseph · Aug 29, 2009, 07:23 AM

Now is the time to start being more assertive. One day you will look back and regret not doing things like approaching this girl. Life is going to be full of challenges, and when you are shy, and afraid, it makes you miss out on so much. Just go up and introduce yourself. Don't try coming up with a corny pick-up line, like in the movies. Just be genuine.

Let this be the blossoming of a new you! Now comb your hair, and tuck in your shirt.

rancidmango3000 · Aug 30, 2009, 02:55 PM

Well you could always just tell her how you feel. That doesn't always work though. Compliment her if she smiles and thanks you and seems like she wants to carry on talking you've got a winner carry on talking see if you share the same interests and then ask her if she wants to go out do one of them if she says yeah then go for it there if not unlucky