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    gunlover19 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 20, 2009, 08:44 PM
    How to tell my best friend that I'm tired of hanging out with her husband?
    But evertime I wanna hangout with her she always asks her husband if he wants to go. Even to Victorias Secret he want to go. Then when me and my best friend are shopping hes complaing that hes tired. He has his own friends but he never hangsout with them. Now I dont wanna hang out with her because her husband always goes with us. What do I do?

    I do do all girls day and her husband says why can't I go then he winds up going


    I dont want to seem selfish either but Im tired of this
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    Aug 20, 2009, 08:49 PM

    Some people are so in love and some people are so insecure. Its hard to tell what is really going on so it's best to try in a very subtle way to tell her how you feel. Be prepared that it may upset her or it could easily back fire. You never know why they do what it is what they do. It could be a deal breaker for her. Careful
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    Aug 20, 2009, 09:21 PM

    Tell your friend that you would just like it to be a GIRLS DAY ONLY! And that you want to spend some time with just her.
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    Aug 22, 2009, 06:18 PM

    Take her for a girls night out. It's really not that hard.

    Once she starts having fun WITHOUT her husband, she will be more willing to keep having fun without him. Plus, it will improve both her and her husband's social lives.

    How old are you anyway? Generally, if your best friend is married, then you are too old to be posting in the teens forum.


    PS: In the future, could you please keep your main posts black? Thank you. :)
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    Aug 22, 2009, 06:21 PM

    Um why is this in the Teens forum?
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    Aug 22, 2009, 06:43 PM
    She said I do do girls day

    It didn't work
    I would pick things that would be totally boring for him
    Than you might sugest to her
    "do you think he really wants to go?"
    Making her think about "well maybe not"
    It has to come from her
    Also if they are newly weds you might have to bow out for awhile and
    Give them some time
    It could blow up

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