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pavr9634 · Aug 20, 2009, 01:35 PM

Last week I went with my friends to the pool but when I went there I saw my crush this guy that's really hot!! We talked so much but when he told me that " you have no boobs but dont worry they will grow" I felt so upset abaut it that I cried because it was so embarrassing :(

Scleros · Aug 20, 2009, 01:51 PM

What a mean thing to say. That's a common problem with hot looking people; many open their mouth. In any case, should he persist in his assessments of you, remind him you're lucky that you have options should you desire larger ones, whereas he'll be stuck with the same small manhood throughout his life. Do not let this one idiot affect your self-esteem. Guys like all shapes and sizes. Kick this loser to the curb and find someone who appreciates you for you. Anyone else isn't worth your attention.

XOXOlove · Aug 20, 2009, 03:33 PM

You should NEVER EVER go out with someone who says something like that to you. Don't let a mean person let you down. He should be ashamed not you.

J_9 · Aug 20, 2009, 04:03 PM

How cruel! This guy is a JErK!! I'd never speak to him again if I were you.

simoneaugie · Aug 20, 2009, 04:28 PM

Guys have said things like that to me. When I was a teen, it was hurtful and disheartening. Now that I'm "old" and fully appreciate my small boobs I've learned that guys say things like that because they think it's okay or helpful to say.

What I'm trying to say is that he isn't a jerk. He is ignorant. People usually say the best thing they can think of at the time. Sometimes they don't know better. Sometimes they just screw up.

If you're up to it. Tell him how it made you feel. Educate him so that he doesn't inadvertently hurt someone else with the same ignorance.

Small boobs are wonderful for so many things. Like, buying bras, jogging, hot weather, nursing babies, buttoned shirts... atracting guys who aren't boob freaks.

pavr9634 · Aug 20, 2009, 05:42 PM

Hahhaa yeah its true but the thing is that he's a really nice guy but when he said that I saw the other part of him :(

jmjoseph · Aug 20, 2009, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by pavr9634

Last week I went with my friends to the pool but when I went there I saw my crush this guy thats really hot!!. We talked so much but when he told me that " you have no boobs but dont worry they will grow" I felt so upset abaut it that I cried because it was so embarassing :(

He's an a$$. Go for someone else.

J_9 · Aug 20, 2009, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by simoneaugie

What I'm trying to say is that he isn't a jerk.

Yes, he is an insensitive JeRK!!

HelpinHere · Aug 22, 2009, 06:15 PM

I have to just about disagree with everyone here...

If he really is a nice guy, then it could have been an awkward moment. I've been put in a similar situation, where there was the awkward silence, and I just blurted out something stupid before... :o

I suggest you actually ask him what he meant by it. If he gets all embarrassed, and tries to change the subject, then he just said something stupid. If he said it on purpose, then he is a jerk, but there are too many different responses he could give to outline here.

Again, everyone needs to look at the other side of the equation. I know that it is pavr's post, but there was another party involved, even if they didn't post here.
Maybe he is nervous around her. Think about him too please.

zippit · Aug 22, 2009, 06:35 PM

Think about this pavr
What if you had way huge oversized boobs
And he staired at them all the time
And he said man you have enormous boobs
Would that make you FEEL better?
Proubably not
If that was his first time saying something like that just load up and check his a$$ next time
He's not a jerk he just says what's on his mind before he thinks about it which is also honesty and that's not a bad thing,once he gets a handle on it

mary79 · Aug 22, 2009, 07:21 PM

Women come in all shapes and sizes. Some have big breasts, some don't. Same with the butt. Hips, etc. I don't know your age but if you are not 18 yet, you may grow some more. I don't remember the age women stop developing. Don't sweat it because when it comes to what guys like, they are all different. Some guys like girls with smaller boobs.
Love yourself regardless. And it is true that if you are not happy with your breasts when you are grown up, you can do something about it. Some girls get so huge that their boobs are so heavy and give them back pain or posture issues. They end up "having to" have surgery to reduce the size. Imagine that? It's tough for them as well. It was just one boy. There will be more