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    Aug 16, 2009, 02:59 AM
    Lost attraction to my wife
    Hi, I am 30 y old, married since 5 y, have 8 months daughter, I love my wife very much, but since a month or more I suddenly don't feel attracted to her, don't know why, I want to get my passion back , really miss the feelings.
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    Aug 16, 2009, 03:02 AM

    Is it possible that she is no longer keeping up with her appearance since having the child, maybe even gained a little extra weight?

    Have you spoken to her about this?

    How about giving her a trip to the salon to get her hair done, maybe a new outfit-- help her get out of the mommy zone for a bit.

    Sarah
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    Aug 16, 2009, 03:19 AM
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    Aug 16, 2009, 06:20 PM

    I think its called settling down, often when couples get too use to each other the marriage becomes rather routine and complacent. You need to think of things you use to do that made the relationship special.
    Like can you get a babysitter and go somewhere you use to always enjoy going together.
    Also remember love isn't about the sparks it is a commitment to each other and willingness to work through everything together

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