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    gooday Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 13, 2009, 09:54 AM
    How do I tell him?
    I am an interenational student in the states right now. I only have two more weeks to finish up my college degree, which means I am going back home.

    Now here is the question, I live with a friend, whom I've known for over two years, and not until five months ago did I find out that I've developed feelings for him. And I am having the most difficult time trying to not show my feelings.

    Two weeks from now, when I say good bye to him chances are I will never see him again for the rest of my life. If I don't tell him how amazing of a person he really is, and how much I apprciate him for being there for me, I will not be able to forgive myself.
    Problem is, I don't know how.

    Please let me know
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    Aug 13, 2009, 10:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by gooday View Post
    if i dont tell him how amazing of a person he really is, and how much i apprciate him for being there for me, i will not be able to forgive myself.
    problem is, i dont know how.
    Just say it: "Before you go, I wanted you to know that you are an amazing person and I really appreciate you for being there for me."
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    Aug 13, 2009, 07:32 PM

    I think you should tell him the truth I mean you really like him and as you said probably you will never see him again so tell him say what you feel abaut him and probably he will feel the same way or maybe he will give you chance ;)
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    Aug 14, 2009, 05:18 AM

    You should tell him how you feel and maybe it won't be the last time you see him. Maybe you can get his address and send him letters. Or get his phone number.
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    #5

    Aug 14, 2009, 03:04 PM
    There is probably a good chance that he feels the same about you.

    Why not give him something to keep. Write a nice letter out to him, or write in a blank card, exactly what you've said here.

    That way you leave a little something for him to always remember you by.
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    Aug 14, 2009, 06:20 PM

    Tell him what you really feel. Talk to him about it or write all out and give it to him to read. If you don't do it u might regret it and plus you will feel better when you get it off your chest to him. That's why I love talking to people and bogging because it really helps me.
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    Aug 14, 2009, 06:37 PM
    Take the opportunity to tell him how you really feel about him, you don't want to spend the rest of your life wondering what might have been:D
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    Aug 15, 2009, 08:25 AM

    Exchange emails, and keep in touch!

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