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    shonny7 Posts: 18, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:22 PM
    Few Inputs?
    I met this girl and we went on a date last Wednesday. It was planned on Tuesday but she postponed it for some reason. Anyway, we had great time and I enjoyed her company. I called her after two days and she mentioned that she had great time too. So, we planned to get together on Sunday. But, right at the last minute she canceled Sunday plans. Neither have I heard back from her nor have I contacted her since then. I really like her. Do you think I should call her again and plan for another date? Is she just busy or not interested?

    Well, just need some valuable inputs from you guys. I would really appreciate female perspective on it. Thanks in advance.
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    ChihuahuaMomma Posts: 7,378, Reputation: 608
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    #2

    Aug 11, 2009, 12:23 PM

    Maybe she is just a flake, busy, not interested. This isn't something that we can tell you. Third times a charm, or three strikes you're out. Give it a shot, if she cancels or flakes blow her off and date someone that values your time.
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    #3

    Aug 11, 2009, 05:00 PM

    Yeah, I don't see anything wrong with making new plans with her.
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    #4

    Aug 11, 2009, 05:01 PM

    Call her, the worst that can happen is she says she's not interested.
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    #5

    Aug 11, 2009, 11:57 PM

    Seems like she's not interested at first glance. However, there's no way to be sure until you try again.

    If she cancels on you again without rescheduling, then there's a higher chance that she's not interested.
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Aug 12, 2009, 05:30 AM

    I am going to go against the grain here... if a woman cancels a date on me it is up to HER to reschedule. I have pretty simple (yet sometimes seemingly awkward) rules to dating...

    Any sign that she has lack of interest and I am gone.
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    CrazyThumper Posts: 82, Reputation: 36
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    Aug 12, 2009, 08:00 AM
    Have to agree with KC here. If the girl cancels the date-especially last minute and doesn't take into consideration my time- its now on her to make the plans. Try again and again? No thanks.. been there done that, just makes you feel needy and uncomfortable.

    Effort on both parts=win..

    Thumper
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Aug 12, 2009, 11:53 AM

    Stuff happens, I would try it again at a later time.She may not want to seem to desperate.

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