[luv sucksz]

** chat talk is not allowed** I have translated the original post the best I could, so here it is *** FC***

I have been dating this girl, We did not become friends first but went straight into a more serous relationship. Now she wants to take a break from dating although our feellings for each other are a lot stronger. I am afraid of losing her and I tell her how I feel all the time. We have heart to heart conversations. We are both 19. She has told me she does not want to lose a guy like me. What do I do

[ChihuahuaMomma]

Chat Speak is not allowed here, I don't even know what you are saying.

[N0help4u]

Sounds like she just isn't interested in a relationship and just used you for friends with benefits nothing more.

[HelpinHere]

Please, use coherent English when posting on this board.

It sounds to me like you made a stupid mistake. You don't want to "hook up" with a girl you don't know, if you are looking for a relationship. It's like saying "I want to see if you are a good lover before I know your last name."
A true relationship will never work like that.

Learn from your mistakes, and never skip the "friend stage" again if you want a relationship.

[I wish]

You can't force someone to feel a certain way. They either like you or they don't. But in your case, she liked you at first. Now that she knows you better, she realized that you're not the type of guy that she wants to be with. When she says that she doesn't want to loose a guy like you, she's just being nice so that the breakup isn't so hurtful.