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Arijita Bagchi · Aug 8, 2009, 01:16 PM

Hi,
I am a girl of 20 years old from West Bengal. 3 years back I fell in love with a guy.
After 1 years of our relation I came know that he was already married. But he never told me about al these before. I love him a lot... and its very difficult for me to forget him.
I have talked to him regarding this but he said he has no problem to keep any type of relation with me. All these is causing mental disturbance... And also affecting my studies.Please Help me out of this problem.

temptasion76 · Aug 8, 2009, 01:27 PM

Hey hun I'm new.. but can't relate, look in all honesty is really pointless to even let him getu the way you are.. He didn't tell you one.. second if you were is wife wouldu like him seeing other women but more he lied to you for did you say a year? Hun you have your whole life ahead of you just let it burn and let it go boo-boo. I knowits hard but a man can only do to you what you allow him to do so move on... and don't let it get to you. If u'd ask him to completely leave her would he do it? No there is a reason he married her. Listen to your mindon this one not your heart... xoxox good luck. Dalila.

temptasion76 · Aug 8, 2009, 01:30 PM

Opps meant can relate.. I never saw a married man but a man that already had a women @ home... N lied and I liked him it was a year also once I found out let it go I cryed like a baby but I was strong and for that I am who I am today... a non-sucker join the club baby girl.

Stringer · Aug 8, 2009, 01:41 PM

Arijita, my advice is RUN.

Any person that would not honor his/her wedding vows isn't worth it hon and he has little or no values.

Temptasion, good advice hon, but please do not use 'chat talk' abbreviations on AMHD.

talaniman · Aug 8, 2009, 01:46 PM

Get him out of your life, he lied to you, and doesn't care. The easiest way to do that is stop all contact with him whatsoever.

You should be highly Pi$$ed off at his deceiving you, and that's not love, and sure isn't love on his part.

sully123 · Aug 8, 2009, 02:59 PM

He has never been upfront and honest with you. He lied to you. Think more of yourself than that to settle with someone who deceives you.

Fr_Chuck · Aug 8, 2009, 06:09 PM

You stop talking to him, period, don't talk to him, don't see him don't do anything with him

artlady · Aug 8, 2009, 07:09 PM

He is not available to you and you need to understand that.
You are someone he wants to be with on the side.
Don't dishonor yourself that way.

artlady · Aug 8, 2009, 07:14 PM

Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

You stop talking to him, period, don't talk to him, don't see him don't do anything with him

Ok I was trying to rep you and I guess I repped you today so it said no rep.
If you don't take rep why couldn't I do it? You have that black thing that takes no rep so why can't I rep you?
Like you are black and you don't care so why shouldn't I be able to rep you?
Do you get what I'm saying? :rolleyes:

none12345 · Aug 8, 2009, 07:22 PM

A married person is off limits at all costs.

I suggest you move on.

Stringer · Aug 8, 2009, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by artlady

Ok I was trying to rep you and I guess I repped you today so it said no rep.
If you don't take rep why couldn't I do it? You have that black thing that takes no rep so why can't I rep you?
Like you are black and you don't care so why shouldn't I be able to rep you?
Do you get what I'm saying? :rolleyes:

:confused::confused: Huh, Arty, I don't.:confused::confused:

artlady · Aug 8, 2009, 07:49 PM

My friend found out that she had been cheated on and a 25 yr.marriage down the drain! Blows my friggin mind,can't help it!

Stringer · Aug 8, 2009, 07:55 PM

That, I understand.

My first marriage ended in her cheating, two beautiful children and 18 years... zip!

Stringer

HistorianChick · Aug 8, 2009, 08:16 PM

If a person is married, in a relationship with, or otherwise involved with another person, they are off limits. Period.

He lied to you for a year. I'm sorry that your heart is breaking, that you feel used, and that he has not returned your trust. But, dear, he is a cheat and cannot be trusted.

I'm sorry.