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My girlfriend, is broke up with me and sais well be friends and see what happens
OK here we go. My girlfriend of 3 months and I have had some problems recently, all of them involving other people. Like, she lets what other people say about me get to her head to easily. This is the main situation. Her mom told her to break up with me for 2 years then get back together, so she told me and I said OK ill wait, then after 3 days I realized that it was unfair for me to wait, I told her that I couldn't wait anymore and that crushed her. She said that she lost all trust for me after breaking my word. So we are broken up now but we had a talk and she said we will be friends and then well see what happens from there. I'm very confused. I don't want to be friends I want her badly.
She says she loves me and she wants to be with me but she can't because she doesn't trust me. I would appreciate mainly advice on these subjects. -how to act now that were only friends? -why she is doing this, is there another man? Is she trying to push me away without hurting me? -how long should I wait before I tell her we need to be more then friends again? -when I do tell her, what should I say? How should I phrase it? ***some info**** were both 19 and virgins, she is more the old fashion type of girl. |
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-how to act now that were only friends? You don't become friends until after both of you recovered from the breakup. It's also possible that you never become friends again in the future too. So instead of worrying about this, focus on recovering from the breakup first.
-why she is doing this, is there another man? is she trying to push me away without hurting me? She sounds extremely confused. Like you said, she gets influenced really easily. So let her sort out her problems and you focus on moving on with your life. -how long should i wait b4 i tell her we need to be more then friends again? Never put a time. It's when you are both done recovering. -when i do tell her, what should i say? how should i phrase it? Don't get so caught up about being friends. You already asked 3 questions about being friends. Focus on moving on with your life. If you have so many issues with her, then she's not a very good match with you anyway. |
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