[SophiaC]

I am extremely worried that I might be pregnant - please pardon the explicit descriptions, but I think the detail is the only way that can ensure accuracy about this. I would be very grateful if you could take your time to read through this...

The last day of my period was about 08/08, and usually, my period should be coming around now. About 13 days ago, 19/08, I messed around with my boyfriend and took a shower with him. He ejaculated but he didn't touch the semen and fingered me after that, though only rubbing the outside. Then, he washed it off with running water under the tap with his hands, and then we took our shower. By then, he had soap all over his hands and he playfully rubbed me there again.

I started getting very paranoid and stressed about getting pregnant so I searched for information, but they said the chances were very low, since soap and water apparently kill sperm. The next day I had cramps and my breasts were heavier, usually the signs of an impending period, but there was no period. I thought it was a pregnancy symptom and stressed out again, but realised that it couldn't have happened so quickly.

Then, last Tuesday, 28/08, my boyfriend fingered me and early morning the next day at 4am, I found dark brown blood staining my pantyliner with a few spots of red. It looked exactly like brown menstrual blood in the early parts of a period, so I was very relieved. However, my pad was entirely clean the rest of the day, and since then, I haven't gotten my period.

Could that dark brown blood have been implantation bleeding, or was it just a short, irregular period from my stress of being pregnant? I am in no position to get pregnant at all - I'm only 16, and my boyfriend and I have never expected that our messing about could have posed any chances of pregnancy. Also, my period has also been very regular till now. I have never had such a strange 'period' before. It has also only been recently that my boyfriend began fingering me. Could the semen have stayed on his fingers despite him washing everything out with soap and water?

Thank you so much for reading through this, and I would greatly appreciate it if anyone could clear my doubts. Thank you!

[danielnoahsmommy]

you are not pregnant. And I think you meant in July dtae are wrong. Furthurmore, you are to young and immature for all this fooling around. I doubt whatever he had on his hand could have survived a shower. Sex=pregnancy

[SophiaC]

Ah yes, Wrong dates. Meant 07. Thanks >_>

[ladybug123]

I completely agree with danielnoahsmommy. You aren't pregnant. Fingering, yet alone in the shower with running water and soap, does not equal pregnancy. You're periods may be irregular at tis point due to a lifestyle change. Maybe you're more active, sleep less, eating different, more stressed. There are tons of reasons women can loose or change the regularity of their cycles.
As for you feeling heavier breasts the very next day, that's impossible. It takes 7-10 days for the egg to implant, yet alone you wouldn't be feeling anything until about a week after that.

[SophiaC]

All right, indeed I am sleeping less, and rather stressed too. Thank you so much. So the brown blood couldn't have been implantation bleeding either? It was about 8days afterward...

[s_cianci]

If what you've described is all that happened, then it's highly unlikely that you would have gotten pregnant as it sounds like there was no actual penetration. Stressing yourself can cause symptoms resembling pregnancy.

[britbrit_016]

YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT. That does not result in pregnancy. Your weird period could be because of stress.