[plzhelp008]

Well this is my situation,I met this girl couple years ago ,she works in a place where I go to
Eat,we start talking and it was cool ,then I start acting flaky and kind of like a jerk and then I stop going to that place for a while and I manage to talk to her again and then I did again and I stop going to that place again since then we never talk the same ,1 day I told her the I want to be her friend and she told me that she doesn't know that I was just her custumer and not to hang out
I was sure that she was goint to tell me yes and then I stop going ,I thoug that it was for the best just to move on then after like a month I went to get a something to eat and she talk to me in a nice way but I tough the she was doing her job because I'm a costumer and so I act like a cold person and went back cuople times again and the situation was the same 1 day my friend told me that she was looking at me and other time she was walking by the place she works and she turn around and look at me we make eye contac and I turn my glaze away ,last week she treat me different like she was mad at me and I just realize how much I want to be with her every time I go there she ignorme and then she is just like whats' up and I ask how you doing and when she answer is like fine but mad or she just walk away ,I don't know how to make things rigth I want to go every day and maybe she star talking to me again but this is driving me nuts or I want to talk to her on the side and talk things true but I don't think she wants to talk to me.Any opinions will help thanks.

[Gemini54]

Well the first thing I'd say is why don't you just act normal?

Stop trying to second guess her motives - you do sound like you're bit all over the place - no offense.

I wouldn't go there every day - why don't you go a couple of times a week and just be stable and normal. Talk about the weather, the food, how she's feeling. Be nice, be cool, but don't overdo it. Order your lunch, eat it there, smile and her but don't be a lech.

Once you've been doing this for a couple of weeks you can gauge if she likes you or she's mad with you or she hates you.

Remember she may not like you 'coming on to her' in her work environment, so if you think she likes you, it's probably best if you ask her out away from her workplace.

[plzhelp008]

Thanks you for your response,I will follow your suggestion and see what happens